The One That Got Away (wife, how to, married, girl)

[SifuPhil]

Do you have one? Do you regret it? Do you ever think of them still?

If you could do it over again, what would be different?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

Do you have one? Do you regret it? Do you ever think of them still?

If you could do it over again, what would be different?

Phil, in life timing is everything. Instead of thinking about what I COULD have done differently, I like to think of what I can do differently now

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Phil, in life timing is everything.

That's what she told me last night...

Instead of thinking about what I COULD have done differently, I like to think of what I can do differently now

Excellent! But I must admit, even though NOT looking too closely at the past is a sort of mantra of mine, there are times when the mind just goes on auto-pilot and dredges up certain memories...

[Huckleberry3911948]

i played it pretty tight. but then again, it came out well.
tight is a good game for me. everybody has got to play their own game.

[itsafloater]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

Do you have one? Do you regret it? Do you ever think of them still?

If you could do it over again, what would be different?

There were a couple that I'd love to be able to look into a crystal ball with and see where we'd be today had everything worked out that way, but unfortunately, that's just not an option. I think of them often, have dreams about them almost weekly, but do not dwell on the past or it'll suck me dry. I have a wonderful family and am filled with love.

That being said, it life gave you a do-over, I know exactly which point I would return to.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

Do you have one? Do you regret it? Do you ever think of them still?

If you could do it over again, what would be different?

Poor Sophia Loren had to even get born early-early only to get away from you!

Originally Posted by itsafloater

That being said, it life gave you a do-over, I know exactly which point I would return to.

Me, too. Down to the date.

[lola8822]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

Do you have one? Do you regret it? Do you ever think of them still?

If you could do it over again, what would be different?

Gosh Phil, you really know how to make a girl sad first thing in the morning

[austinsmom]

I can honestly say that I cannot imagine having married anyone but my husband. I won't lie and say that before we married, I wondered about a couple of my exes and where we might be. I met my Mr. Right at the right time and place. We've been happily married for almost 10 years (Sept) and I wouldn't want it any othe way. Regrets are not worth it. You can't live in the past. Make the future what you want it to be.

[Rcm58]

I'd just mentally paint a mustache on your Mona Lisa.

[Granny Sue]

While I do believe I was meant to be married to my husband...

There is one I let get away.....What I would do differently is..NOT listen to my friends and if was to die off it would have done so naturally.
He wasn't cool enough for my friends so I dumped him. I have regretted being so shallow ever since.

He's now married, has two kids and his wife is living the life I thought I would be.

But again, and I've said it before, I thank God for unanswered prayers.