I Think She's Up to Something (movies, advice, sexy, womanizer)

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by mrstewart

Here's what I would do ( I think!)

Enlist the help of your friends for some of this.

Get a copy of her cell phone records. If you can't get that, get a SIM card reader and get her SIM card out and download the information.

We have a software program at work(husband and I are the owners) that gives us all passwords used when anyone is on our network. Maybe you could get a one time use on line. I would watch everything.

Then, after you have what you need, show her what you have. I would not show her the pics or emails you just found. Save them for a "rainy day". No need to show her your hand yet.

Just get your "ducks" in a row. Don't yell. Try not to act differently. Go along, status quo. Silence is golden right now. She will continue to go about her "business" since she is comfortable and you will have a better idea of the whole story and how to proceed accordingly.

Nix my idea of calling the ex boyfriend just yet. Maybe you should do that when you are ready to confront her. If she denies the information, then bring in the call to ex boyfriend.

Again,this isn't your standard situation. She's the bigger techie and in charge of the phones & computers so that's out...
I'm just an old fashioned guy that relies on truth.

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

Again,this isn't your standard situation. She's the bigger techie and in charge of the phones & computers so that's out...
I'm just an old fashioned guy that relies on truth.

UGH!

Well then, the old fashioned route is the way to go. Smoke her out, call her boyfriend while she is there and watch the fireworks.

But I would print out the pics and emails first.

Hang in there. I feel so bad for you

[SanAntoQT]

The old-fashioned thing to do is COMM-U-NI-CATE! TALK to the woman, for pete's sake! If she clams up or gets defensive, then you'll have your answer.

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by mrstewart

Well then, the old fashioned route is the way to go. Smoke her out, call her boyfriend while she is there and watch the fireworks.

I don't think she has his new phone #,but just the same.
Come to think of it,it would probably be easier for me to catch them on the phone. Although she's even got a pass code for her voice mail,we pretty much share the minutes each month on the cell phones.

[SifuPhil]

I think it's time to walk, my friend.

Just make sure everything is really as it seems. I don't believe in coincidence, but I also like to be dead sure before I do something that changes my life.

Good luck, and you know where I am if you want to vent.

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

I think it's time to walk, my friend.

Just make sure everything is really as it seems. I don't believe in coincidence, but I also like to be dead sure before I do something that changes my life.

Good luck, and you know where I am if you want to vent.

Ok but I am not moving to NEPA!

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

Ok but I am not moving to NEPA!

*shrugs*

It's a good place to get lost for a while...

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

*shrugs*

It's a good place to get lost for a while...

No more PA! Been there,done with that!

[artsyguy]

Maybe she wants you to compete. So slip on your speedo and start putting up photos....kidding.

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

No more PA! Been there,done with that!

Smart man.

There's always the Foreign Legion...