For all the haters... (boyfriend, women, loyalty, cheating)

[Alisonann15]

I just wanted to let everyone who had an opinion on my post about "I keep cheating and I don't know why," that I did leave him and we broke up. He has tried to get me back twice already...I think he has a death wish. But, in all honesty I don't think anyone can truly judge what two people have together, but those two people.

[Ivorytickler]

If you keep cheating, it can't be much.

[cpg35223]

If you don't give a rip what we think then why are you back here? It's not our fault that you feel this compulsion to sleep around.

[mrstewart]

Yes, why are you back if you feel you were harshly judged but don't care what anyone had to say??? Makes no sense...

[sms0511]

Originally Posted by Alisonann15

I just wanted to let everyone who had an opinion on my post about "I keep cheating and I don't know why," that I did leave him and we broke up. He has tried to get me back twice already...I think he has a death wish. But, in all honesty I don't think anyone can truly judge what two people have together, but those two people.

I agree with everyone.

ALISON, if you "really", "really" don't give a hoot about what we think, why BOTHER going back here to prove your point? Are you trying to brag that, even though you kept cheating on him, the guy just kept coming back to you, wanting you back? Do you think that makes YOU look like the GOOD person?

We pity the guy, for you have treated him w/ nothing but DISloyalty, not to mention bringing home the dangerous possibility of "health hazards"....

If you cheat ONCE, that can be considered a GRAY area, but since you KEPT cheating on him, we all would have to say to you:

SHAME ON YOU!

[SanAntoQT]

Originally Posted by Alisonann15

I just wanted to let everyone who had an opinion on my post about "I keep cheating and I don't know why," that I did leave him and we broke up. He has tried to get me back twice already...I think he has a death wish. But, in all honesty I don't think anyone can truly judge what two people have together, but those two people.

Hey, you're the one who posted your dirty laundry here and asked for advice/opinions! If you don't want people in your business, then it's best that you keep it to yourself. You asked, we answered and now you're annoyed...BFD!

[Mr.Cat]

Originally Posted by sms0511

I agree with everyone.

ALISON, if you "really", "really" don't give a hoot about what we think, why BOTHER going back here to prove your point? Are you trying to brag that, even though you kept cheating on him, the guy just kept coming back to you, wanting you back? Do you think that makes YOU look like the GOOD person?

We pity the guy, for you have treated him w/ nothing but DISloyalty, not to mention bringing home the dangerous possibility of "health hazards"....

If you cheat ONCE, that can be considered a GRAY area, but since you KEPT cheating on him, we all would have to say to you:

SHAME ON YOU!

I couldn't have said this in a better way.

[captaincatfish]

Well...count me among the haters then...I get so blamed sick of folk always asking for advice or the answer to a question, then bowing-up and spitting attitude when they don't like the answers! This is a forum, Alisonann, and the purpose of forums is to provide discussion of issues presented by posters...if you did not want to hear the answers, then frankly, you should have not have ventured in with the question! 'Hater' is a vile term (to me anyway) coined by folks who can't understand why people have the balls to actually call them out as being stupid...and for the record, the young man who keeps coming after you after you keep dropping trou with other guys is both a moron and a fool, and I seriously question YOUR mental state too---you seem to wear your infidelity like some sick 'badge of honor', when all it signifies to me is that you haven't really grown all the way up...that's MY opinion, and if that makes me one of your haters, then so bloody be it...quit busting attitude and defiance toward folk when they call you out for being feckless, simple, and just plain arrogant :-(

[pitt_transplant]

morals = haters?

Oh thats rich.

[easternerDC]

Maybe it is me, but I don't see how the fact that he tried to get you back has any bearing on the quality of your relationship. Makes it sound more like your boyfriend has no backbone to stand up for himself nor has the self esteem to realize that he could do far, far better than someone who has no respect for the relationship.

There are women who are beat and/or verbally abused, but they still try to get their boyfriend/husband back. That does not mean that no one cab truly judge what two people have together, but those two people.