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Unread 09-02-2008, 09:41 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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Default Wanted to share this.......

I've had this for years......isn't this what it should be all about? Had this on my myspace for a long time, all of my friends love it....as do I......wanted to share

Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very MOMENT that they will affect your life in some profound way. and sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, PAINFUL, & unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck. Illness, injury, LOVE, lost moments of true greatness & sheer STUPIDITY all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you will become Even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact, they are the most poignant ones. If someone HURTS you, BETRAYS you, or breaks your HEART, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things. Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment & take from those moments everything you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before & actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, BREAK FREE, and set your sights high. Hold your HEAD UP because you have every right too. & believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish.....Create your own life & then go out & live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live. Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... WAS IT WORTH IT? By: unknown
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Unread 09-02-2008, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I've had this for years......isn't this what it should be all about? Had this on my myspace for a long time, all of my friends love it....as do I......wanted to share

Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very MOMENT that they will affect your life in some profound way. and sometime things will happen to you that may seem horrible, PAINFUL, & unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming these obstacles that you would have never realized your true potential, strength, will power, or heart Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck. Illness, injury, LOVE, lost moments of true greatness & sheer STUPIDITY all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. The people that you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience, help to create who you are and who you will become Even the bad experiences are learned from. In fact, they are the most poignant ones. If someone HURTS you, BETRAYS you, or breaks your HEART, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things. Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment & take from those moments everything you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before & actually listen... Let yourself fall in love again, BREAK FREE, and set your sights high. Hold your HEAD UP because you have every right too. & believe in yourself. For if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make your life anything you wish.....Create your own life & then go out & live it with absolutely NO REGRETS. Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you NEVER know what tomorrow may have in store. And learn a lesson in life each day you live. Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... WAS IT WORTH IT? By: unknown
Have you seen this poem? It summarizes your thoughts nicely. Now figuring it is the hard part...

Reason, Season and Lifetime

..

People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

..

When someone is in your life for a REASON,

it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty,

or to provide you with guidance and support,

to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

...

Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

...

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away.

Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

...

When people come into your life for a SEASON,

it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.

They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,

the season eventually ends.

...

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;

those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);

and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being part of my life.


Reason Season Lifetime (http://www.steeldog.com/reasonseasonlifetime.htm - broken link)
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Unread 09-03-2008, 07:31 AM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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Have you seen this poem? It summarizes your thoughts nicely. Now figuring it is the hard part...

Reason, Season and Lifetime

..

People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

..

When someone is in your life for a REASON,

it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty,

or to provide you with guidance and support,

to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

...

Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

...

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they just walk away.

Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

...

When people come into your life for a SEASON,

it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.

They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall,

the season eventually ends.

...

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;

those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);

and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being part of my life.


Reason Season Lifetime (http://www.steeldog.com/reasonseasonlifetime.htm - broken link)

Very true.....makes ya' think ya' know......
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Unread 09-03-2008, 01:15 PM
 
Location: CITY OF ANGELS AND CONSTANT DANGER
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its always good to read this. this reason, season lifetime, has gone around for years and everytime i come across it, i am provided some insight into my current state of being.

thanks. it just made me realize something.
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Unread 09-03-2008, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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its always good to read this. this reason, season lifetime, has gone around for years and everytime i come across it, i am provided some insight into my current state of being.

thanks. it just made me realize something.
Have you figured by any chance how NOT to want the people meant for a reason or a season for a lifetime?
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