Should a woman dumb herself down? For the Guys. (wife, married, women)

[JeepGirl118]

Have a couple of questions for the guys.

Off the bat - in the very start when meeting. . .

In a man's eyes - is there such a thing as a woman having her life and head *TOO together.* Should a woman that has it together dumb-herself down a little?

Are men intimidated by women who are financially successful VS not being able to somewhat "save her" as a Damsel?

Thanks in advance.

Asking for a friend of a friend whose Mother's beautician's cousin's friend's Auntie wants to know. Of course. LOL ;-)

[dynimagelv]

If she dumbs herself down for me......she'll have to do it for someone else too cause I'll be gonnnnnnnnne....

now...if she owns a JEEP...well....we can talk..... J/K

[cpg35223]

My wife claims she married me because I'm the only man on the planet unintimidated by her. She's a raging beauty, of course, but beauty is good for a fun night on the town. Brains is what you want for breakfast the next morning.

[ryanstartedthefire]

I don't think a woman should ever have to dumb herself down. In high school most of the girls I knew and dated were "daddy's girls" who had never worked a day in there life and knew nothing about the value of a dollar. They were completely dependent on their parents and their parents wealth for everything. I met a girl my age in college who was a manager at a company, very intelligent and well read and supported herself. I had a big crush on her. So I suppose I prefer my women strong. The flip side of that is I am sometimes tense around strong women. I am intimidated around them in general, but still have a great deal of respect for them. So I do prefer a woman not to be dumbed done, even if they scare me sometimes

[cpg35223]

And another thing, if you have to dumb down to attract a guy, doesn't that mean that you only wind up with stupid men?

[yankeegirl313]

Heck no! If he can`t handle the way she is, then he needs to move on!

[mrstewart]

No way!! The relationship will always be based on a lie and you will be miserable...

[neotextist]

Originally Posted by cpg35223

And another thing, if you have to dumb down to attract a guy, doesn't that mean that you only wind up with stupid men?

Yes. I did that a lot when I was younger and ended up with um, not stupid, but definitely less than bright men. I'm older and wiser now and I don't bother anymore. I figure you gotta take me as I am or not at all!

[bxlefty23]

**** no
i get bored so quickly with idiots
i mean at first its raw sexual attraction but that wears off quick if you are retarded

[himain]

YES---A lot of guys don't like intelligent, confident women..Trust me, when I was single, they all were scared!!! Maybe an equal playing field made them feel inferior??