Are "attractive" women more superficial than "unattractive" women? (ugly, definition)

[Mr.Cat]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Your statement would be just as effective if we reverse the gender roles.

For some reason I knew I was gonna get it from you after this comment

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Mr.Cat

For some reason I knew I was gonna get it from you after this comment

Darn, I've become predictable! No good! Eh, I could've passed, but I happened to be around...

[Ron.]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Sure. Don't forget some of us have been around this forum for a while...

I'm sorry about your luck

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by ChicagoRon

I'm sorry about your luck

Why? I enjoy them. It's not like you're the only one on the forums...

[Artsywoman]

Originally Posted by ChicagoRon

I know that is a very broad statement and a huge generalization. But it has been my experience that many of the attractive women I have meet or worked with seem to be more superficial and certainly more materialistic than so-called unattractive women. Also the attractive women usually have an over inflatted opinion of themselves.


I know someone is going to say it, so I'll put it out there now: I know attractive means different things to different people. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.whew.


What has been you experiences?

No they are not. I am attractive, maybe not beautiful, but people are people and there are some aholes and phonies and some not. I could say I have been with attractive men and all of them were jerks, but I still don't feel all men are aholes.

[crbcrbrgv]

Originally Posted by frootloop6

I find that guys who I consider good looking, in their 30s and early 40s don't have any interest in me (I'm 40), and the overweight 50 somethings are the only ones contacting me on the online dating sites. I'm not a supermodel by any stretch, but my ex-boyfriends all think I'm pretty. I take care of myself, exercise, and am a healthy size 8 (with healthy sized b**bs as well) but I think younger good looking guys (and some of the older ones) are still fixated on the Hollywood stereotype and only want the size 2 stick figures.

Maybe the problem is they all have size 2 sticks.

[ajs5mz2]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Sure. Don't forget some of us have been around this forum for a while...

lol

[ajs5mz2]

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[60-minutes-II]

Originally Posted by Artsywoman

No they are not. I am attractive, maybe not beautiful....., but people are people and there are some aholes and phonies and some not. I could say I have been with attractive men and all of them were jerks, but I still don't feel all men are aholes.

.....maybe not even attractive

check out her profile

[Rcm58]

I just think they come off as being superficial because they are beautiful. Most people need their ego stroked to maintain a feeling of acceptance. If you know your beautiful without doubt then unneeded compliments are discounted and you come off as unappreciative. If its a fact then theres no need for that point to be supported.

Its like knowing your loved, you don't have to hear I love you if when you come home your S.O. is waiting patiently for the door to open, your favorite meal prepared, he or she is wearing an outfit they know you like, they give you a massage even though their tired.....you just know!