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Old 05-09-2009, 11:05 PM
 
Location: Wicker Park, Chicago
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What is your definition of an attractive woman? I might be hot to a bunch of men at some bar in the sticks in Oklahoma and butt ugly to a bunch of men at a bar in downtown Chicago.
MLV - you're HOT! You're totally ALPHA! I'd date and marry you if you were never married! That you married a blue collar guy shows you weren't a gold digger - very nice!

Now make me your friend and give me some Rep Points!

I also need to see you in a swimsuit! I'll pose in a swimsuit if you pose for me too! Got over 60+ swimsuits!
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Old 05-09-2009, 11:24 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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MLV - you're HOT! You're totally ALPHA! I'd date and marry you if you were never married! That you married a blue collar guy shows you weren't a gold digger - very nice!

Now make me your friend and give me some Rep Points!

I also need to see you in a swimsuit! I'll pose in a swimsuit if you pose for me too! Got over 60+ swimsuits!
Oh Jesse, my dear. If only we could swap swimsuits I doubt my tops would fit you with my big girls and my bottoms would defintely not fit you with your third leg though

Reps coming your way my man
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Old 05-10-2009, 06:31 AM
 
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Oh Jesse, my dear. If only we could swap swimsuits I doubt my tops would fit you with my big girls and my bottoms would defintely not fit you with your third leg though

Reps coming your way my man
I think your hot...can i get a rep now?
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Old 05-10-2009, 06:32 AM
 
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Absolutely not. You cannot judge a persons character by how they appear on the outside. I think a lot of unattractive women would like people to believe the attractive women are more superficial (and more intellectually challenged) than unattractive women but I dont think so.
Exactly, its mostly ugly people too who are just flat out mean. To anyone except for good looking people. But I have met my fair share of males who were over six feet and thought they were God's gift to the world and they carried themselves this way. Do you ever wonder why the government's best killers or most of it's special forces operatives are all under six feet?
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Old 05-10-2009, 03:05 PM
 
Location: California
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and say (and keep in mind that I'm in California) there is definitely a tendency for very attractive women to focus on the looks of others. I suppose that is the topic they are used to discussing. But it gets downright cruel at times.
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Old 05-10-2009, 03:08 PM
 
Location: California
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Oh, that article is hilarious!!! Love it! Finally someone telling it like it is.

TRADING UP - A posting from Craigs List (http://ebcsnetwork.net/misc/tradingup.html - broken link)
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Old 12-31-2009, 09:44 PM
 
Location: Alabama City,AL
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Default Depends

In my OPINION, it comes down to their level of beauty an inner mirror. The ladies that are naturally beautiful i.e. wake up next to them and the first thing you want to do is smother her with kisses, when they throw on the sexy dress and heels with the slight hint of makeup....you don't want her to go out the door! Those types tend to be less fickle in life, more relatable and upbeat. But, the ones whose image is a daily ritual, no matter how hot it turns out, realize the insecurities within themselves, what they must hide. Most of the time they do that by being cheeky, demanding, over dramatic, heavily narcissistic, plastic or just down right ANAL There is no such thing as an unattractive woman, nasty or dumb..yes!!!
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Old 03-08-2010, 05:27 PM
 
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ugly people are superficial too
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Old 03-08-2010, 05:51 PM
 
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i should know i am ugly but judge other

i have no idea why
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Old 03-08-2010, 06:10 PM
 
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When I first read your post, I was going to reply with a flat out "yes", but after thinking about it, I've seen it go both ways.

I knew a young woman a few years ago who would probably be considered attractive by most guys. She was also probably the most superficial person I have ever met (I even told her so). She had very specific tastes in men:
  • she preferred Italians (even though she is Asian)
  • she likes guys with dark hair ("blonde men do it for me so much less, if at all")
  • she likes muscular guys
  • she likes tattooed guys
  • she likes "bad boys"
  • she had specific eye colors that she favored
If you didn't have these characteristics, you wouldn't stand a chance with her. On the other hand, if you did have the look that she liked, she'd go out with you if you were married, or even in drug rehab.

On the flip side, a very attractive former neighbor of mine had dated a very average looking guy that she met while taking classes at a local college. Another attractive woman that I went out with once later dated an average looking, bald man that she met through work. So clearly even though these were attractive women, they were not so superficial as to merely be looking at what was on the surface (looks), but found other qualities in these average guys that made them attractive to the women. BTW, neither of the guys were wealthy by any means.
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