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09-07-2008, 05:56 PM
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Interracial Relationships: Have you ever been in one?
There must be 1,000 threads about this, but i'm new  .
Anyways, have you guys ever been involved in a interracial relationship? If so, with who? and what race/culture was that specific person?
For the ones who DON'T agree on interracial relationships: tell me why? should men/woman stick to their own culture? Do you have doubts that if you see a man dating a female outside the race/culture as you your culture will be gone? (for example: if a white girl marries a black guy and they have a child and both raise the child to be BLACK-AMERICAN), would that affect you?
I'll start: I've never been involved in a interracial relationship, i don't have a problem with it but i rarely see it in the area i live at.
The End  .
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09-07-2008, 05:59 PM
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Per Favore, Non Mi Rompere i Coglioni... Grazie
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I am living one right now. I am hispanic and my wife is white. Now I really know what Ricky Ricardo went through with Lucy.
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09-07-2008, 06:00 PM
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having problems Mr.Cat?
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09-07-2008, 06:08 PM
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Per Favore, Non Mi Rompere i Coglioni... Grazie
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Brute Force
having problems Mr.Cat?
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Oh nothing than a regular couple can't handle. The difference in cultures, the way I was raised compared to the way she was. The relatives, way of thinking, everything is so different. A beautiful blue eyed blonde haired daughter, a challenging son and another baby boy about to pop out. I wouldn't change it for anything in the world. 
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09-07-2008, 06:18 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr.Cat
Oh nothing than a regular couple can't handle. The difference in cultures, the way I was raised compared to the way she was. The relatives, way of thinking, everything is so different. A beautiful blue eyed blonde haired daughter, a challenging son and another baby boy about to pop out. I wouldn't change it for anything in the world. 
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What are you by the way?
and congratulations on the future baby  .
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09-07-2008, 06:26 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr.Cat
I am living one right now. I am hispanic and my wife is white. Now I really know what Ricky Ricardo went through with Lucy.
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I like your personal quote "whoever doesn't like it can go to hell," or something like that. You must be Cuban.
Back to the topic. I have not done this unless you consider dating Hispanics from Cuba or Argentina who have a clearly Spanish heritage as dating a minority. In reality, they are transplanted Europeans.
I've only dated caucasian women (that would include Latin Americans who know who their (great)grandparents from Europe are) and make no apologies for it.
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09-07-2008, 06:27 PM
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City-Data Evangelist
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I'm a white guy, dated a black gal when I was in grad school. We broke up due to reasons having nothing to do with race. We talked about the racial difference a little at first, but it was really no big deal. Media portrayals of interracial relationships tend to focus on the whole race angle but having been in such relationship I found that race really didn't come up very much. It was just another relationship.
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09-07-2008, 06:34 PM
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Waiting for the Outcome
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I'm black, and my boyfriend is white. We've been together for 1yr and a half now. He's mixed.
His mom is Italian and Irish and his dad is Black and Italian.
This is my first interracial relationship, and I cant wonder why some ppl would be against it.
I see interracial relationships daily, especially in my school.
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09-07-2008, 06:46 PM
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1st Amendment, RIP!
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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat
The difference in cultures, the way I was raised compared to the way she was.
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Maria Portokalos: It's a cake! I know! Thank you! Thank you very, very much.
[whispering to Aunt Freida]
Maria Portokalos: There's a hole in this cake!
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09-07-2008, 07:08 PM
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I'm a 6'7" white guy and dated a 5'0" japanese gal not too long ago. Yeah seems like an akward match with our heights  She had major issues and was pretty messed up, there were a lot of great sides to her but she had too much baggage to have anything successful with anyone. A shame really and I hope she figures things out, good person overall. I met her parents and didn't really have a lot to say to them as they migrated from Japan 15 years ago to the states and didn't know english too well. She was only 10 when she moved here so she continues to talk to them in Japanese, this is probably why she has some issues today. Yeah it was a little akward but it wasn't going to stop me from pursuing anything.
I am now pursuing a half white / black girl that grew up in the area where I grew up. She seems cool and chill but I am already getting signs of craziness or maybe she is a little insecure don't know yet. Sometimes I think I have this magnet that attracts the crazy baggage ones or maybe they are all like this. Anyway I have no problem with interracial relationships. I am attracted to all types  I live in Maine and have all my whole life there are mostly white people here.
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