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Old 09-13-2008, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Whitewater, Colorado
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Us? Sleep apart? NO WAY! We're pretty much inseperable, especially at night. It's nice to feel the light saber and provides a good heater in the winter.. And protection when I hear weird noises or just feel creeped out.. Anyways, I'm pretty deaf when I lay down and don't have my hearing aids on (I've been hearing impaired since I was 9 years old- 22 yrs old now) so I can deal with snoring and late night tv watching. He doesn't like sleeping alone either so he deals with my snoring too.
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Old 09-14-2008, 03:48 AM
 
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i love my husband, but i cant STAND sleeping in the bed with him. he likes the tv, radio, etc on, while i want silence and blackness. he sleeps downstairs, and i love him more in the morning.
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Old 09-15-2008, 12:05 AM
 
Location: TX
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Originally Posted by artsyguy View Post
did he shart on his wife or something?
What is shart?

Oh, I get it now: shart = sh1t fart

Nasty
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Old 09-15-2008, 12:11 AM
 
Location: TX
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For those couples who fight each other for the blanket, why not use 2 blankets - his and hers?
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Old 09-15-2008, 12:17 AM
 
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Well the last month and a half or so I have been working nights and wife works days. So same bed different times. That works well for me.

I think when the schedule changes I might move into the other room.
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Old 09-15-2008, 06:22 AM
 
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Mrs Refugee and I sleep in separate rooms and it helps our relationship.

I have read that almost half of older couples sleep in separate beds.
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Old 09-16-2008, 12:37 AM
 
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I have never liked sharing a bed. I just can't sleep well if I'm crowded.
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Old 09-16-2008, 03:05 AM
 
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The worst part for me is sharing the bed with the dogs. Lately I am constantly telling them to move.

When I am on days off and home and I share the bed it gets worse. Grrrr
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Old 09-16-2008, 03:14 AM
 
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Going without sleep because your partner keeps you awake most of the night from snoring, thrashing, or whatever, is a good way to ruin one's health. And to continue that pattern for any length of time just for the sake of being in the same bed together is ludicrious!
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Old 09-16-2008, 03:25 AM
 
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I'm glad so many people sleep apart. People are allways shocked to find out me and my hubby prefer sepperate beds not sharing a wall.
I'm a light sleeper, and have trouble sleeping a lot anyway.
He grinds his teeth, and makes this high pitch screeching noise. We have been blissfully married 9 years, we slept together for about a week when we first got together, and that was it.
On vacations we sleep in seperate beds, but I can't sleep in a hotel anyway, it is useless.
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