fadeaway (date, women, call, advice)

[whateverdontcare]

he gradually stopped asking me out after 2 month of hangingg out, it sucks cause i miss him don't know what to do? haven't heard from him like almost 2 weeks now. should i drop a line to ask how's he doing or just shrug it off and move on? i liked him... i.already did initiate the date last time ......
he never said anything to me during our hanging out but kept asking me out for dinner. it's weired but i liked him.... i thought he's just not good at sweet talking
any suggestions?

[Autumn07]

Originally Posted by whateverdontcare

he gradually stopped asking me out after 2 month of hangingg out, it sucks cause i miss him don't know what to do? haven't heard from him like almost 2 weeks now. should i drop a line to ask how's he doing or just shrug it off and move on? i liked him... i.already did initiate the date last time ......
he never said anything to me during our hanging out but kept asking me out for dinner. it's weired but i liked him.... i thought he's just not good at sweet talking
any suggestions?

Hi there,
I know exactly how you feel.
I started seeing a guy back in mid June.
Like you- I liked the guy I was seeing and this guy has never told me what it is that he actually wants either. Last time I saw him will be two weeks tomorrow. He didn't call me again until last Thursday so he waited 9 days to call me what the heck! 9 days to long if you ask me. So at this point I'm through with him. I think if a guy is really interested in spending time with you he probably won't wait 9 days or two weeks to call you no matter how busy he is. I'm moving on. My advice to you is- I'd move on. You deserve to be treated better than that.
Good Luck with whatever you decide to do.

[rjl78]

Never hurts to say "Hi, how are you doing". But nothing wrong with moving on either.

[Yvon]

Move on, and if he calls. Don't answer.

[Autumn07]

When the guy I was seeing finally called me last Thursday and again on Sunday- I didn't answer either time.

[yankeegirl313]

If he hasn`t called in two weeks, then I would just move on. Sorry....

[rjl78]

Anyone ever wonder if the poor chump is thinking the same thing as the orignal poster?

[Beena]

Originally Posted by Autumn07

Hi there,
I know exactly how you feel.
I started seeing a guy back in mid June.
Like you- I liked the guy I was seeing and this guy has never told me what it is that he actually wants either. Last time I saw him will be two weeks tomorrow. He didn't call me again until last Thursday so he waited 9 days to call me what the heck! 9 days to long if you ask me. So at this point I'm through with him. I think if a guy is really interested in spending time with you he probably won't wait 9 days or two weeks to call you no matter how busy he is. I'm moving on. My advice to you is- I'd move on. You deserve to be treated better than that.
Good Luck with whatever you decide to do.

Are you friggin kidding me?? "he waited 9 days to call me". Wow. Here, let me offer you a tip that you should never forget. HE WAS PROBABLY WAITING FOR YOU TO CALL HIM!!

This is 2008. Not 1958. You would not believe how many guys are tired of having to initiate as women "protect their ego" by not putting themselves out there. And that "protecting of ego" will make for some very miserable and lonely women in their 50s and 60s.

If you liked him, then for gawd sake go for it. If you get shot down....get over it. Guys have been dealing with rejection for centuries. It won't kill you.

[mir_ny]

call or text him. judge his reaction to your phone call or text message. it's been two weeks so if he doesn't sound excited, gives one word answers, or it's a one sided convo on your part then move on. you shouldn't wait around for any guy.

[christina0001]

I'd give him 1 call, and 1 call only, and I would see if he brings up hanging out. If he doesn't, then move on.