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09-22-2008, 01:21 AM
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Location: Atlanta, Ga
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Originally Posted by Artsywoman
That is terrible. God , I hope I don't come across like that! I am 44 and I like/love men and am active, childless, smart, romantic etc. etc. What a stereotype. Just because we have a uterus does not mean we want kids! I chose not have them, because I grew up in such horrible dysfunction, that I told myself I would never have kids ever and have them grow up like that. I was 19 when I said this and I still mean it. If more people thought like this, there would be less messed up kids around.
I enjoy my single life. I have been told I was attractive. We are not all dried up! I hate that stereotype. I get hit on by young men, older men, teenagers. People think I look young and I still have it going on!
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When you got out with guys and they find out your age do they ask whats wrong with you? Not that I think there is but I know guys then to think that if you are attractive single and mature its because youre a maneater or something. As if they think that if no one else wants you then I dont either. I have a few friends/relatives in that situation
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09-22-2008, 01:29 AM
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Location: Atlanta, Ga
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Why is it that (especially with women) you are valued by your marital status? A woman with no man and no kids is like tabu or something..atleast its been that way in my experiences. I hope to get married one day but i dont want kids so I dont know how that affects my chances of getting married. But whether I do or not I dont want to be considered one of the females in this thread. BTW I am too pretty to be manly and unattractive   lol |
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09-23-2008, 12:05 AM
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Location: Houston, TX
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Never married, no kids Im aware of. I move a lot. Very happy with the situation, never had to give up half a house or my retirement savings.
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09-23-2008, 07:14 AM
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Location: Nova, D.C.,
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Originally Posted by YBF
When you got out with guys and they find out your age do they ask whats wrong with you? Not that I think there is but I know guys then to think that if you are attractive single and mature its because youre a maneater or something. As if they think that if no one else wants you then I dont either. I have a few friends/relatives in that situation
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No, they just tell me I look great for my age! Everyone has baggage, what kind of question is that. You are renforcing stereotypes by even writiing that. There is nothing wrong with me! |
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09-23-2008, 07:15 AM
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Location: Nova, D.C.,
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Originally Posted by ChicagoRon
I just want to see how many exist is CD land........
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Was married unfortunately, but no children thank god! |
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09-23-2008, 07:17 AM
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Location: Nova, D.C.,
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Originally Posted by YBF
Why is it that (especially with women) you are valued by your marital status? A woman with no man and no kids is like tabu or something..atleast its been that way in my experiences. I hope to get married one day but i dont want kids so I dont know how that affects my chances of getting married. But whether I do or not I dont want to be considered one of the females in this thread. BTW I am too pretty to be manly and unattractive lol |
If you think like that then you will get what you desire. Think that you look great and are wonderful and stop reenforcing that stereotype!! |
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09-23-2008, 07:28 PM
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Location: Northeast Pa
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I'm 41 never married, no children. At this point in life it ain't gonna happen-I'm set in my ways-I control my destiny and I like it that way.
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11-29-2008, 02:11 PM
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Another one in GA
My supervisor is 49, never married, and absolutely NO children. She's VERY booksmart with a SHARP wit, and fancies herself a comedian on the side. Not so bad to look at, though she prefers the very plain look; not in touch with her feminine side as far as (skirts and heels) ever.
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11-29-2008, 03:01 PM
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In Western Europe it's very common for people to be over 40 without ever being married or having kids. That is why they have the lowest birthrates in the world.
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11-29-2008, 03:40 PM
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Location: Cairo - Egypt
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I said that many times ago..
I am 39 years old never married and virgin.
If you are single, Will you marry me,,,Just kidding. |
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