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This poll and topic is in reference to the many gay men that choose to be sexually promiscuous and shun away those whom wish to date or be in relationships when it is contrary to psychological and sociological evidence that NSA sex is any good for you or your health....
** My opinion- Am I missing something here, gay men only make up 3% of the population yet they just want to have NSA sex or casual sex most of their lives....is there no comfort in monogymy?
My good friend of 20 years is gay and when he was younger until he was about 45, he slept with anything that walked and was hot! I did have a lot of fun checking out men with him, but he worried me with Aids and such. He has settled down, but I still think he flirts a lot and wants to sleep with other men. He is actually a sex addict is what I think.
Could it be because our culture tries to suppress the desires of gay youths? Then, once they're old enough to break free of society's expectations, they simply can't tolerate anyone continuing to restrict their sexuality, even in the form of monogamy?
I'm just guessing here...really haven't got a clue.
Okay, I went with "do not value relationships because their parents didn't value them," though I'm not really qualified to say. I'm just guessing that's how I'd feel. Hope you get some responses from people who really know.
Post your view or hypothesis. Different view points are accepted here.
I have only known one gay man that acted promiscuous, but I do not know if he actually was. He was sort of like 'Jack' on 'Will and Grace'...alot of talk.
Our other gay friends have been couples for years, even decades. They are more like old married couples who sit on the porch with Bloody Mary's on sunday morning, reading the paper and talking about the great party the night before.
So, I have no theory, really. I just have a different set of gay friends.
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