Good idea or not?? Could this be bad for my health? (husband, kids)

[John1960]

Worse yet all her husbands have died.

John

[artsyguy]

Yes, you are talking about the movie Throw momma from the train. Good taste in films

Originally Posted by Chinese girl

Hi John,

It reminds me a movie..sorry, I forget the movie name. it talked about a single man lived together with his grandma. he is a genius for creat games and working in a game firm.then his grandma also play games with him together at home.and they get along with each other very well...it is very fun movie...

Why don't you try that ? I think your aunt will be happy to see you move in to her house as he need a accompany.maybe you are not used to be live with some older lady liker her. maybe you should just think he is your mum or your gf...you need accept a person run into your heart..then you are able to learn how to get along with someone. and to care about them. if you really can't do that..feel bored for the words or the life style of your aunt..then you move out..at least you tried ..right ?

and I feel that you want to move in from what you write..so just do it according to your feelings.


Good Luck !

[YBF]

John, Are you seriously considering this? Are you going to let other ppl TELL you what to do? I think you already know what your decision should be to this....Not to move in with your aunt...you need to do whats best for you not everyone else. She has kids (notice the plural) that think you should move in with her not because you are single but because you are an easy scapegoat to get the attention off them not wanting to move in with her. Come on think about it...


One another note why does she need someone with her anyway? Is she not independent? You all can just visit her everyday or every so often...just my $.02

[artsyguy]

I feel so so so much pity for you. Your better off in your trailer house at a friendly trailer park.

Originally Posted by John1960

Worse yet all her husbands have died.

John

[Chinese girl]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

Yes, you are talking about the movie Throw momma from the train. Good taste in films

hehe..Maybe we shoud guide John to watch it also..

[Saberai]

How can you call yourself "independent" and think about moving in with your aunt? I work in a nursing home. The last thing anyone should do is to feel any sympathy for them, because it belittles them and you would let the residents take advantage of you.

Really. You're a smart guy. You make decisions for yourself, not what some of your family members tell you.

[artsyguy]

I'm so scared for you. Pray to God she doesn't come after you and hunt you down.

Originally Posted by John1960

Worse yet all her husbands have died.

John

[artsyguy]

ROTFL since when does sympathy belittle a person? Last time I heard sympathy is what makes the world go round.......

Originally Posted by Saberai

How can you call yourself "independent" and think about moving in with your aunt? I work in a nursing home. The last thing anyone should do is to feel any sympathy for them, because it belittles them and you would let the residents take advantage of you.

Really. You're a smart guy. You make decisions for yourself, not what some of your family members tell you.

[Saberai]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

ROTFL since when does sympathy belittle a person? Last time I heard sympathy is what makes the world go round.......

Hhhm. I hope you're not confusing with empathy, my friend

[artsyguy]

Does it really matter....same concept different spellings

Originally Posted by Saberai

Hhhm. I hope you're not confusing with empathy, my friend