Having a tough time.. Post-Breakup Issues!

[djfish34ren]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

I'm just testing you to ensure you haven't become a wimp

hahaha.... well thanks artsy.

[djfish34ren]

Hey all, another update! Bet youre tired of these, but it makes me feel better!

So I haven't posted anything about this because I am forcing myself to stop thinking about it, and moving on. There is no contact, etc, so there really was nothing new to add.

Anyway... so I was going through my old mail to throw out a bit ago, and came across my old cell phone bills. It seems that before I bought the ex her own cell phone, she was using mine to call a few different numbers... and talking to them late at night for several hours at a time.

Funny thing is, I know the main number is a guy's number, and that it is not her new bf's number (seen his before). Not that it matters at this point, but I am even more pissed off knowing that this was going on long before I figured it out, with more than one person, and with my own phone/etc.

I guess I just find it kind of depressing that even the person I was with really long-term was lying for a LONG time and not only cheating on me with the guy that I caught her with, but another (who knows how more) as well. I wish I could unload on her and just let her know that I am aware, but since we have nothing to do with each other anymore, it's best that I don't.

Wonder what's all been going on in my house when I wasn't here... I had better start disinfecting.

Thanks for reading. The more I find out about this all (and I'm not even looking) the more it pisses me off and makes me thankful she is long gone.

[Livalife]

Hey bro, about filling the void in your heart, I've tried so many things over the years and have now found that the only remedy to everlasting joy is Jesus. Give him a go, you've got nothing to lose.

Just tryna help

Take care

Friend

[serendipitousstar]

Work is really helpful through a break up, even if you aren't doing your best. And it is always smart to go out and at the very least pretend your having fun, then eventually you won't have to pretend anymore.

Break ups pretty much always suck, but there are always things to be learned.