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Maybe she will change her mind. If she just got done with a long relationship maybe it scares her that she let you meet her kids. That is very hard and confusing for children to have people come in and out of their lives. Most books suggest you wait until things are serious before spending time with the kids. Who knows. Maybe she will have a change of heart...doesn't sound like this was you but something she is dealing with.
I met someone just last week, this time last weel actually - an amazing woman, and we connected very quickly and physically, there was an attraction. This lady is a single mother, great kids, lovely personality, lives 2 mins from me...and wow. She said she had never met anyone like me before, and it was wonderful - so much so we went on two dates - lunch and dinner - on the first day and she invited me to a party, where I met her son on the Friday and quite a few of her friends - we went to dinner with everyone, and then back to her place.....nothing too involved happned, kissing, talking....and her saying that it was wonderful, and she couldn't believe she had found someone like me....
On Saturday, things changed very quickly, she said - it had happened too quickly and was very crazy too...and we should perhaps stop seeing each other. This hit me like a truck, it really did. I know having only known her a few days, i shouldn't be so silly. And girls I know, you take the control away from the man and his world flips. But it really really hurts. I think it's because of her children and she has got over a very serious illness of late and maybe just felt she had let go too quickly. Anyway, I have written her a beautiful letter saying goodbye and sending her some beautoful flowers....but I can't help but feel something more. I'm normally so good in affairs of the heart, and not short of attention, but this woman was special and my heart hurts so much.....
As others have said it takes a little time.
Sorry to tell you that.
It's been a long time since I was heartbroken but that's the way I remember it, especially with the perspective of time.
ya maybe she is a fwaidy cat ascared to get huwt agaain...
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Originally Posted by driftwoodpoint
Maybe she will change her mind. If she just got done with a long relationship maybe it scares her that she let you meet her kids. That is very hard and confusing for children to have people come in and out of their lives. Most books suggest you wait until things are serious before spending time with the kids. Who knows. Maybe she will have a change of heart...doesn't sound like this was you but something she is dealing with.
Turn up some Boy George and open up the bottle of boons farm...... ok not really.
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Originally Posted by cremebrulee
ewww,
that would make me feel worse...I gotta get out and laugh...but then, we are two different people...
ok, bourbon, but not Willie Nelson...something loud and happy? No saddness...
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My boys wouldn't remember the last name in two dates!
...but then, we are two different people...
