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A first kiss does not mean too much. It seems like the guy always has to kiss you even if you do not plan on seeing him again, they just gotta kiss you. I would say the kiss means more after you start dating for awhile and you start to have feelings for the other person.
God, what a depressing thread... For the record, I don't care for the rituals. If I don't feel like kissing somebody, I just won't. Then again, I wouldn't be out with him to begin with. Don't mind me... carry on.
Kissing is an advanced level sign of intimacy. Atraction begins with eye contact. Then other signs like hair twirling, exsposing wrists, tilting neck. Then if interest continues touching usually initiated by the female, very bad for the male to touch first. The woman usually starts taking the opertunity to touch the male on the hand, arms. Men are generally clueless and the female starts touching more frequantly, duhhhhhh touch me back! The female usually wants to be kissed when she moves in closer tilting neck, a sort of pre-kiss jesture but after slapping the guy 50 times and moving in she want's him to take the ball here. Think I'm making this up? Video tape two interested people for an hour but play it fast forward! You'll see the female practically mauling the guys arm in fast forward until he finally gets a clue and touches back.
After connecting in such a way the first kiss usually gets rated hi no matter how bad or awkward. This is why there are so many one night stands, and then they realize "what was i thinking?" even if the two have a lot in common and might make a good match, they now see each other as just hook ups. This is why hold offers have such a higher term success rate, but think they don't. They eventually get into "petting" a guy, or gal they like for more reasons than just initial desire. As a guy who learned how to listen to and read women i find many annoy me, no matter how hot the initial attraction is, doesn't mean I'm not going there, just realizing it is what it is right off the bat. In which case I'm turning up the afterburners that night on purpose so I don't have to for nights on end with this annoying woman, lol. You interest me, I'm actually going to hold off on bagging you tonight.
In my age group a lot of newly available women just want to feel desired, after a failure. I am very aware of this...lol If I truly like a girl I usually won't go beyond the touching stage on a first date until the drop off. It impresses them and makes them hungry for a second date and then when they compair notes, which THEY ALL DO and girls tell them I'm just a hound they get thinking they might be special, he seems to like me for me. That sorta thing. Wink. Yes I'm a predator, but there are a lot of predetorettes out there too!
optiflex, thanks for the help. that post helped me realize what and how to establish and maintain a great relationship. i'm going on the 5th month... wish me luck!
When you are dating someone, in your own words, what does that first kiss represent to you? Does it mean that the two people have acknowledged an attraction? Does it imply that they want to continue seeing each other? Or does it not signify anything at all?
Depending on how the kiss was! To me, the kiss was always representing a mutual attraction and desire towards each other, especially if the kiss was so passionate that would make my knees weak.
However, if the kiss turned out to be awkward with no sparks flying, then it would possibly mean the end of possibility for a relationship.
Aaaah! Old thread!! Didn't notice.
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For the record, I don't care for the rituals. If I don't feel like kissing somebody, I just won't. Then again, I wouldn't be out with him to begin with. Don't mind me... carry on.
