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lola,
i have been in counseling, individual and couples, i fired my last counselor after a disastrous individual session last week. interviewed a new one last week, scheduled for this week.
funnty thing, my wife semi-reluctantly committed to go. i say semi-reluctantly, but she called me last week and said "where are we supoosed to be right now?" i said "huh" she said "appointment with dr. rice." oh yeah, i'm not seeing him any more. she knew the circumstances and said "oh yeah" but it was nice to hear that she remembered the appt. time, like it was on her mind. maybe she was a little more committed that i thought. anyway, i'm gonna see the new one individually for a couple weeks, then wife has agreed to come on board. well see...
Interview them prior to seeing them....this way you can pick somone who is right for you.....also, try having a heart to heart with your wife....she obviously is trying so why not try to "respark" that flame???
I might add don't overdo it and become obsessed with the relationship. You don't want to replace an addiction with anther addiction which is what it looks like you could end up doing.
We meet again.
Yes, listen to the omniscient one!!
J/K but artsyguy does have a point.
Do both of you want to work it out? Sometimes, it's better to cut your losses if only one wants to try and make it work. I'm strong proponent of trying to keep a marriage together so don't take what I saw as "get a divorce". I'm just curious if both of you are on the same page about the marriage.
I am referred to as "Emperor Artsy" around these parts of the forum....
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Originally Posted by foma
We meet again.
Yes, listen to the omniscient one!!
J/K but artsyguy does have a point.
Do both of you want to work it out? Sometimes, it's better to cut your losses if only one wants to try and make it work. I'm strong proponent of trying to keep a marriage together so don't take what I saw as "get a divorce". I'm just curious if both of you are on the same page about the marriage.
I am referred to as "Emperor Artsy" around these parts of the forum....
Hopefully this Emporer has some clothes on, for Pete's sake!!!
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