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Old 04-15-2012, 12:01 AM
 
Location: southern california
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Originally Posted by Trackwatch View Post
That sure is a surprise considering how a lot of them treat the woman they allegedly love.

Many men marry simply to not be alone or it is what is expected.

When some find out the wife is NOT their slave or W$%^ they tend to not be very happy campers.
ok u r saying high rate of filing by women is bek men treat them like slaves abusive insane devils, dont really love them just married bek they are supposed to, or are just lonely. . they sound like demons to me demons who are enslaving women. sweet talked swept off their feet. fair enough.
how bout letting them do that prenup and back out of a mistake he has made?

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Old 04-15-2012, 01:06 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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ok u r saying high rate of filing by women is bek men treat them like slaves abusive insane devils, don't really love them just married bek they are supposed to, or are just lonely. . they sound like demons to me demons who are enslaving women. sweet talked swept off their feet. fair enough.
how bout letting them do that prenup and back out of a mistake he has made?

Sometimes ... Sometimes the husband will not admit when it's over because he thinks it makes him look like a failure, sometimes the husband is so stuck in his drug/alcohol haze it doesn't see his own destructive behavior.
 
Old 04-15-2012, 06:39 AM
 
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This amount of bitterness isn't good for your health Huck, you'll end up having a heart attack.
Bitterness or cold observation?
Look at the stats? Look at history and popular culture! From Cindirella to Pretty Woman womens' dream and goal, with society's approval was to marry up and improve their economical situation. The truth is that historically women have always been trading sexual favours for wealth and security. This has not changed much in XXI century. The only thing that changed is that due to legal and socio-economical changes it is much easier for women to leave marriages and function the society on their own.
My point is that MOST women still chose to marry to improve their situation yet they still act surprised when their marriages fail.
I think our legal system based on a objctive to protect helpless women should change otherwise there will be less and less martiages.
You can marry a lazy girl who spent 10 years of marriage refusing to go to work yet in the end you still owe her 50% of marital wealth.
Thats crazy how divorce can ruin people....
 
Old 04-15-2012, 06:43 AM
 
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Marc Anthony just filed for divorce from Jennifer Lopez. My father divorced my mother. My friend's husband divorced her.

There are men that divorce women.
Who files for divorce does not necesseraly indicate who wants out or who is responsible for failure of the marriage. Sometimes filing is the only option left
 
Old 04-15-2012, 06:46 AM
 
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