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I'd have to say that's insecurity on the part of whom she's with now. It's not like they're 14 or 15 and this is their first relationship ever. They're grown adults and have a past. I have piercings I got for specific reasons and no, unless I felt like it, would I remove them for anyone. It's her body, she can do whatever she wants with it.
Honestly, if this is the biggest problem they have... stop sweatin' the small stuff. If a tattoo of someone's name is the make or break deal, then someone has a tad bit of growing up to do... or a lot, depending on how you wanna look at it.
and its his penis and he can take to another woman if the other one makes him down.
I just got word from a good friend of mine in NY. He's been living with the "woman of his dreams", they love each other very much, they get along super well and yada yada yada. Now She has a tattoo of her ex's name close to her pubic area and this has been bothering him. He asked her to remove it and she doesn't want to do it and does not give him an exact reason why. I told him it just just ink and to just look beyond that but he feels like it is a ghost from her past coming to haunt him.
Any thoughts?
Yes - she should start a "collection" of names. You know - kind of like a little black book list - only tattooed near your private parts! She could have like 50 names up in there!!!
Yes - she should start a "collection" of names. You know - kind of like a little black book list - only tattooed near your private parts! She could have like 50 names up in there!!!
yeah I was thinking the same.Or maybe the guy should just put a towel over it everytime he gets cozy with her.Or better yet just blot it out with a coat of white.
yeah I was thinking the same.Or maybe the guy should just put a towel over it everytime he gets cozy with her.Or better yet just blot it out with a coat of white.
if she can go through the pain of getting it put on for her ex then she can go through the pain of taking it off for her new guy.Or maybe she doesn't love the new guy as much?
I stated my reasons why she may not want to remove it - has nothing to do with love. It's been my experience that those who put tattoos of someone or someone's name on themselves do it for themselves because they want it. We don't know if her old b/f asked her to do this or not. Nonetheless, it was in the past. Gotta move on.
I stated my reasons why she may not want to remove it - has nothing to do with love. It's been my experience that those who put tattoos of someone or someone's name on themselves do it for themselves because they want it. We don't know if her old b/f asked her to do this or not. Nonetheless, it was in the past. Gotta move on.
it is not about the guy asking her to get the tattoo,she went out and got it because she thought "oh he is the love of my life ,we will be together 4 ever" then down the road "John" bails on her or she realizes "John" is a moron and she bails on him.....
but then her next guy "Andre" has to see a tat that says "forever yours John" on her all the time.
here is a brilliant idea...........don't get a friggin tat at all.
or at least plan ahead and get a tat that is user friendly with a universal application saying something like this maybe--->
I just got word from a good friend of mine in NY. He's been living with the "woman of his dreams", they love each other very much, they get along super well and yada yada yada. Now She has a tattoo of her ex's name close to her pubic area and this has been bothering him. He asked her to remove it and she doesn't want to do it and does not give him an exact reason why. I told him it just just ink and to just look beyond that but he feels like it is a ghost from her past coming to haunt him.
Any thoughts?
He said this is their first major fight since they moved in 9 months ago and it's really affecting him.
Your friend is upset about this for *another* reason as he has no doubt seen this tatoo long ago. Is it a focus point for him just not trusting her? Is he nervous about where the relationship is heading and subconciously picking a fight? Is it about control?
If they guy really loves her and lets this straw break the camels back so to speak then he is one messed up dude. If they break up over this and he came crying to me, I'd tell him he was an idiot and he did it to himself...then I'd probably kick him in the butt.
or at least plan ahead and get a tat that is user friendly with a universal application saying something like this maybe--->
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