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Old 10-21-2008, 03:21 PM
 
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lol I know what you mean about it all sounding the same; however, what do you mean by "half of the women (usually the prey) work in the health care or education?"

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Not surprised at all! If you go on an NPD board, probably more than half of the women (usually the prey) work in health care or education. It's a curse having these traits. The men's professions are quite repetitive, too - engineers, lawyers, firefighters, cops, any other military or law enforcement position.

I've frankly given up on personality disorders. Every book describing male/female relations sounds the same, no matter what terms are being used. Whether you call it NPD/BPD, vampire/victim, or man/woman doesn't make much of a difference to me anymore.
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Old 10-21-2008, 03:49 PM
 
Location: from houstoner to bostoner to new yorker to new jerseyite ;)
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lol I know what you mean about it all sounding the same; however, what do you mean by "half of the women (usually the prey) work in the health care or education?"
I guess what she's saying is that same nurturing, caregiver gene (curse!) many women have that make them want to grow up and be teachers and nurses so they can help people also makes them want to take care of loser men in the hopes that they can "fix" them. Thank God I was passed over the day he was handing those tendencies out. Apparently I was standing in line with all the other rational, skeptical, pragmatic b****es instead.
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Old 10-21-2008, 04:53 PM
 
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Well I haven't seen that. I find most women to be far from "caretaking" and "nurturing" in the education field ......they are in fact mostly callous and cold and start upheavals.

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I guess what she's saying is that same nurturing, caregiver gene (curse!) many women have that make them want to grow up and be teachers and nurses so they can help people also makes them want to take care of loser men in the hopes that they can "fix" them. Thank God I was passed over the day he was handing those tendencies out. Apparently I was standing in line with all the other rational, skeptical, pragmatic b****es instead.
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Old 12-15-2008, 09:48 PM
 
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I am currently dating someone who lives in a shelter and I do not live in a shelter myself. You could very well end up in a shelter yourselves, it could happen to anyone, you pathetic delusional hegemonic cowards.
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Old 12-15-2008, 09:59 PM
 
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Hang on, let me guess, did you just graduate from the Dale Carnegie course "How to Win Friends and Influence People"?????

This thread was a JOKE!

Nice first post, I must say

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I am currently dating someone who lives in a shelter and I do not live in a shelter myself. You could very well end up in a shelter yourselves, it could happen to anyone, you pathetic delusional hegemonic cowards.
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Old 12-16-2008, 01:48 AM
 
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The reason why I ask because many of the guys that live in the shelter that I manage have girlfriends. I just want to know how do you manage to have a successful relationship..........?
I would feel compassion towards them but nothing romantic.

Don't a lot of people that live in shelters, and I could be wrong on this, have drug related issues that put them there in the first place ?
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Old 12-16-2008, 01:59 AM
 
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The reason why I ask because many of the guys that live in the shelter that I manage have girlfriends. I just want to know how do you manage to have a successful relationship..........?
I don't know if I said no before, but just in case I forgot...........NO.

I mean, cause that is what I need, a no job having, possibly drug addicted and diagnosed with crap that requires medication with me. I need this like I need another hole in my head. I don't think so. I think I'm all good.
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Old 12-16-2008, 05:51 AM
 
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No way. That dude needs to focus on other things than getting laid if he is in a shelter.
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