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I used to say that my future hubby had to be educated beyond HS, have a good job, never been married nor any children.
I started dating a guy like that but my problem was....he was an undertaker. I truly could not get past what he did for a living. Shallow I know, but I'm honest.
I ended up with the best guy in the world. No college, divorced with a 4 yo.
deal breakers for me was bad hygiene and bad manners.
I ended up with someone who talkes and chews with their mouth open. But he takes good care of him self, and cares about what he looks like.
The smacking of food at the dinner table still drives me crazy, but I figured that I was able to cross almost everything else off my list.
He is however very typical and started show me the real side of him after the "i, do's"
We all have dealbreakers, things about a person that we consider unacceptable. For me, it's smoking. I don't care how much I like someone, how attractive they are, or how much we have in common. If they smoke, there's no way I would ever want to date them. But there are other things that, in the past, I considered dealbreakers. But now, I've become more flexible about them. For example, if a woman has a child. In my 20s, I would never have been willing to date someone with kids. But now, having tried it, it's no longer a dealbreaker for me.
So what are some things that you've changed your mind about? Or maybe things you changed your mind on and then changed it back to where you were originally?
I will never date a smoker again. I will also make sure that he is smart enough for me, I need a man with intellectual depth or else I will eventually get bored with him. I prefer a man that likes to drive stick, and who loves my tastes in cars, hates mustangs etc...
Things I haven't changed my mind about... NOT having kids, dating a druggie or someone that drinks a lot, someone that doesn't love my pets.
I will never date a smoker again. I will also make sure that he is smart enough for me, I need a man with intellectual depth or else I will eventually get bored with him. I prefer a man that likes to drive stick, and who loves my tastes in cars, hates mustangs etc...
Things I haven't changed my mind about... NOT having kids, dating a druggie or someone that drinks a lot, someone that doesn't love my pets.
It use to be smoking but the last few men Ive dated were smokers and as long as they brushed their teeth before kissing me or showered and washed their hair before getting in my bed I didnt care. And also I dont like kids and never want to have any so I didnt want to date anyone with kids but its getting so rare to find a man without kids Ive kinda gotten over it. One dealbreaker I will NEVER let go of is ignorance. Im super liberal and if you are closeminded and racist/sexist- anything "ist" lol I cant hang lol.
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