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Unread 10-23-2008, 03:58 PM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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Hate cooking? Ladies, you need a crossdressing man who will be your SLAVE if you do him straight, pretend lesbian, or role reversal! I suggest you hook up with one!
I like she-males and cross-dressing men because we can sit around and paint our toenails together!
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Unread 10-23-2008, 04:37 PM
 
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As an asexual man I have no problem painting my toe nails with lady friends for the fun of it....you know why? Because it sounds like fun.

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I like she-males and cross-dressing men because we can sit around and paint our toenails together!
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Unread 10-23-2008, 09:17 PM
 
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This is the part I especially LOVE about being a woman! I love these sort of women when they do the above to me, I derive *such* pleasure killing them with kindness. Like little lab specimens, it's always a treat to watch them seethe and hate me more for it.
I's have to agree with you 100 percent!You nailed it girl! I love this also. I never give those women the time of day. I am very unemotional when it comes to people bringing up drama it doesn't bother me but its very intertaining!

on the other points others have brought up, i see both sexes as pretty equal (aside from your private parts ofcourse) lol. I don't see women as the weaker sex and don't understand why alot of you women feel this way. What are you refering to as lacking; muscles,body frame, attitude, sex drive, lack of iron in the blood, lol im being silly here but women please don't feel that way. Im not saying feel like you can just go out and kick anyones ass but please don't feel vulnerable, not as being a woman or to anyone else male or female.

I see the sex drives in women in general that are extremeily strong and sometimes more so then alot of men. While women can focus on what they want and be sexually free , men tend to be trapped in their stereotypes of having to always be the tough guy, always feeling that you need to be able to take out anyone who confronts you and if you don't it proves how much of a man you aren't ( alot of that feeling weither its male or female comes from feeling vulnerable, then it turns to anger and anger supresses sex drive - its a scientific proven fact) Women kind of get over it and in turn can focus more on what they want and their sex drive and it goes for men to; there will always be someone out there who is tougher or stronger or faster than you and when it comes down to it, it doesn't mean **** if your male or female. You just need to live your life and be happy , do what you want to do , never let anyone intimidate you but have confidence with yourself and be happy ( thats when alot of guys i think, feel like they are being taken advantage of and vulnerable so they feel the need to fight back) sometimes this isn't the smartest thing because you never know who that other person is and what they are capable of. Alot of men need to realise that being physically tough is not what always intimidates people or gains respect and i think that misconception is society's doing, which is as valuable as something from hollywood. So i guess this was in response to all the women out there who feel that you are the weeker sex, its too bad you feel that way because someone is always going to be stronger or better than you in some way weither your female or male, it just doesn't matter.

Things I love about being a woman:

I love parfumes and making my body smell nice.
I love the way my body is made in a great proportion of curves, muscle and beauty.
I love the way im able to escape stereotypes and just enjoy myself as a strong happy person, if i feel like dressing girly and pretty and classy one day i can, and if I feel like going out to the garage and getting greasy and using my body and strenght to do things that i love to do I can.
My creativity has no limit as a woman, i can express things in a masculine or femanine way and still have respect and understanding from anyone( i am not meaning sexually but more with the arts type of thing.
Other than those things i feel no different than anyone else. I guess i think of my self as less of a certain sex and just me as a person and i happen to be femanine.

Oh and i hope i didn't offend anyone by anything i said, its just my views on things that i believed and the OP asked us women to share so i did.

God Bless

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Unread 10-23-2008, 09:33 PM
 
Location: Pacific NW
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What I loved about being a woman was being pregnant. I loved everything about it especially when he was born. I would have tons of kids if that were Gods plan. I currently love make up, perfume, clothes and sex.

What I do not like about being a woman is my complete hysterectomy at age 28. I only had 1 baby and wanted several more. That was so long ago they would do things differently now I am sure. I currently dislike getting older and hair graying up so I have to color it. I hate having to do the grocery shopping and cooking when I do not feel like it. I am the wife that does everything for her husband and love 99% of it but when I do not feel well I still have to do it. Not that he makes me, I make me so I guess it is my own darn fault.

In general I love just about everything about being a woman. We are the strong ones in so many ways. No offense guys I know you are physically strong buy I do not believe a man could bear giving birth. We are multi taskers. We rock! yeah baby!

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Unread 10-23-2008, 10:44 PM
 
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Haha, guys can multi-task extremely well too. I don't consider talking on the phone and driving a good multi-task ability

Guys have gone through a lot more pain historically than girls, let's be honest here, how many guys have died of hideous battle wounds or survived hideous battle wounds? It's child birth, it's not having a spear thrown through your leg or a bullet shot into your guts or something.

And thank god we don't have to have kids, man that would suck.
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Unread 10-23-2008, 11:42 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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What I do not like about being a woman is my complete hysterectomy at age 28. I only had 1 baby and wanted several more.
Im sorry this happened to you. I'd take your place in this regard, if possible, as I have no use for my reproductive ablities. 'Tis a shame they cannot be given to someone that would.

People that want children should be able to have them.
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Unread 10-23-2008, 11:46 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Haha, guys can multi-task extremely well too. I don't consider talking on the phone and driving a good multi-task ability

Guys have gone through a lot more pain historically than girls, let's be honest here, how many guys have died of hideous battle wounds or survived hideous battle wounds? It's child birth, it's not having a spear thrown through your leg or a bullet shot into your guts or something.

And thank god we don't have to have kids, man that would suck.
No, its worse. Imagine the pain of something the size watermelon coming out of something the size of a walnut in YOUR body.

Silly men...
Why else would cowards like me refuse to have them?
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Unread 10-23-2008, 11:49 PM
 
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Haha, I'm totally with you. I would be so excited if somehow I found out I was infertile, that would be awesome. Like if I was taking a medication and the doctor was like, "I'm sorry to tell you that you need this medication to be healthy, but one of the side effects is within two weeks of taking said medication, you will be completely infertile." My eyes would light up, I'd be all excited like I had just won the lottery, "REALLY?! Wow this is amazing, thank you doc!" He's all confused... "Uhh, most people react with horror to this news." Yeah well I'm not most people

I'd get a vasectomy now but I hear it's tough to convince a doctor to do that when you're still young, you have to put in a lot of time to find the right doctor to do it, which is stupid, it's my choice. If I was in a long-term relationship I would get it done as fast as possible, though.

It's always one of those awkward conversations that has to be had, too, with a new girl. "Ok so what would happen if you got pregnant?" If she says she would keep it, and doesn't believe in abortion, no way would I have sex with her. Even a 0.01% chance of my life being completely screwed up would be way too much of a risk to take. I don't take chances with my future. I would just be like, "Well, there are lots of other fun things we can do besides sex, then, I guess." Haha.
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Unread 10-23-2008, 11:51 PM
 
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No, its worse. Imagine the pain of something the size watermelon coming out of something the size of a walnut in YOUR body.

Silly men...
Why else would cowards like me refuse to have them?
Haha, I doubt you're a coward. You just realize the benefits don't outweigh the disadvantages. It's great people still want kids and all, good for them, but I have no idea how they think it's a good tradeoff. Massive financial sacrifice, odds are you won't be able to sleep through the night for years, you have a kid that is going to start fights, annoy you, constantly ask you questions, I mean I don't know that anything could be worse in my opinion. There are a million and one reasons it's a bad idea, and I can't see much about it that's a benefit. Then again I have a lot to accomplish in my life and am not the type of person who wants to spend my time on things that don't really directly benefit me.
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Unread 10-23-2008, 11:57 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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Haha, I doubt you're a coward. You just realize the benefits don't outweigh the disadvantages. It's great people still want kids and all, good for them, but I have no idea how they think it's a good tradeoff. Massive financial sacrifice, odds are you won't be able to sleep through the night for years, you have a kid that is going to start fights, annoy you, constantly ask you questions, I mean I don't know that anything could be worse in my opinion. There are a million and one reasons it's a bad idea, and I can't see much about it that's a benefit. Then again I have a lot to accomplish in my life and am not the type of person who wants to spend my time on things that don't really directly benefit me.
Ah, but I am rather adamant about it. Ive warned my boyfriend of this, and have told him that, if we marry and he changes his mind on the issue, I will give him an uncontested divorce.

It IS difficult to find someone to perform a sterilization procedure, especially if you're a woman AND only 21.
Makes me rather mad to think about it actually...
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