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Old 10-20-2008, 02:59 PM
 
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lol aren't you just a big bundle of sunshine today?

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I am in a relationship with another person. It is not 'fun' and we have no sex. It is called marriage.
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Old 10-20-2008, 03:04 PM
 
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Don't have sex. It leads to kissing, and eventually you're going to start talking to each other.
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Old 10-20-2008, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Yeah, and you know what happens when you start talking to each other!!!
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Old 10-20-2008, 03:12 PM
 
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^ It could lead to a mature and healthy relationship
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Old 10-20-2008, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Personally, I think you just sound young (20's). In our 20's we have a mental picture of "the one" and unfortunately due to immaturity we walk away from some pretty good catches because he didn't match Mr. Right. It's usually not until we get a little older that we start to streamline what we're looking for to what's really important to us.

Why are you sleeping with someone you're not attracted to? I can only guess that it's because there's something about him you really like he just doesn't fit your idea of Mr. Right. Trust me, you'll get over it.
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Old 10-20-2008, 06:57 PM
 
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To those of you who offered some good advice thanks. However, Im not a skank as someone mentioned.

I do agree with some of the other posters and when I thought about it, I think it's because Im just frustrated with often NOT finding many people Im attracted to. Whereas back home, there were lots of people I was attracted to.

Another thing I have to say is, this isnt a relationship or a quest to make this person the right one. Its just for fun.

I was concerned because this isnt the only person I've slept with and havent been attracted to, I sleep with people all the time who Im not attracted to...Im wondering if I have a sex addiction or something, otherwise I need the cuter people to come into my life right this second!
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Old 10-20-2008, 07:01 PM
 
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OMG stop using people for sex Hotwire. That is an awful habit and disrespectful to your body and soul, as well as to others.



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To those of you who offered some good advice thanks. However, Im not a skank as someone mentioned.

I do agree with some of the other posters and when I thought about it, I think it's because Im just frustrated with often NOT finding many people Im attracted to. Whereas back home, there were lots of people I was attracted to.

Another thing I have to say is, this isnt a relationship or a quest to make this person the right one. Its just for fun.

I was concerned because this isnt the only person I've slept with and havent been attracted to, I sleep with people all the time who Im not attracted to...Im wondering if I have a sex addiction or something, otherwise I need the cuter people to come into my life right this second!
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Old 10-20-2008, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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OMG stop using people for sex Hotwire. That is an awful habit and disrespectful to your body and soul, as well as to others.
I have to agree with Artsy here. Sleeping with miscellaneous people out of boredom is a pretty dangerous way to occupy your time. Both mentally and physically.
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Old 10-20-2008, 07:28 PM
 
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Hotwire, occupy yourself with other hobbies and be a good friend to yourself.

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I have to agree with Artsy here. Sleeping with miscellaneous people out of boredom is a pretty dangerous way to occupy your time. Both mentally and physically.
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Old 10-20-2008, 07:57 PM
 
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I do not see the funny part, just talking about life. It is good to be able to cheer folks up though.
Well, I have to say that sex was the ONE thing my ex and I NEVER had a problem with. Always always great...right up to and past , in fact, our separation.

So marriage does not mean "no sex", not for all of us.
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