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Personally, I think you just sound young (20's). In our 20's we have a mental picture of "the one" and unfortunately due to immaturity we walk away from some pretty good catches because he didn't match Mr. Right. It's usually not until we get a little older that we start to streamline what we're looking for to what's really important to us.
Why are you sleeping with someone you're not attracted to? I can only guess that it's because there's something about him you really like he just doesn't fit your idea of Mr. Right. Trust me, you'll get over it.
To those of you who offered some good advice thanks. However, Im not a skank as someone mentioned.
I do agree with some of the other posters and when I thought about it, I think it's because Im just frustrated with often NOT finding many people Im attracted to. Whereas back home, there were lots of people I was attracted to.
Another thing I have to say is, this isnt a relationship or a quest to make this person the right one. Its just for fun.
I was concerned because this isnt the only person I've slept with and havent been attracted to, I sleep with people all the time who Im not attracted to...Im wondering if I have a sex addiction or something, otherwise I need the cuter people to come into my life right this second!
OMG stop using people for sex Hotwire. That is an awful habit and disrespectful to your body and soul, as well as to others.
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To those of you who offered some good advice thanks. However, Im not a skank as someone mentioned.
I do agree with some of the other posters and when I thought about it, I think it's because Im just frustrated with often NOT finding many people Im attracted to. Whereas back home, there were lots of people I was attracted to.
Another thing I have to say is, this isnt a relationship or a quest to make this person the right one. Its just for fun.
I was concerned because this isnt the only person I've slept with and havent been attracted to, I sleep with people all the time who Im not attracted to...Im wondering if I have a sex addiction or something, otherwise I need the cuter people to come into my life right this second!
OMG stop using people for sex Hotwire. That is an awful habit and disrespectful to your body and soul, as well as to others.
I have to agree with Artsy here. Sleeping with miscellaneous people out of boredom is a pretty dangerous way to occupy your time. Both mentally and physically.
Hotwire, occupy yourself with other hobbies and be a good friend to yourself.
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I have to agree with Artsy here. Sleeping with miscellaneous people out of boredom is a pretty dangerous way to occupy your time. Both mentally and physically.
I do not see the funny part, just talking about life. It is good to be able to cheer folks up though.
Well, I have to say that sex was the ONE thing my ex and I NEVER had a problem with. Always always great...right up to and past , in fact, our separation.
So marriage does not mean "no sex", not for all of us.
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