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Old 10-25-2008, 10:39 AM
 
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No, I don't think anyone would think it was okay for the man to leave his wife for putting on weight. I think they were only saying it happens and is heard about.

I think you are taking slack for your apparent lack of effort in sticking by your vows and trying to fix your marriage. You admitted you never have told your husband what you want and specifically how to give it to you.

You'll find a large number of people who post here that take marriage vows quite seriously and by your own posts admit you have a pretty good husband and that makes many shake their heads and wonder why you can so easily give it all up.

You say you don't want the attention but I can't think of another reason to start a second post when the first was more than sufficient.

The advice you now seek on how to make the "transition" as easy as possible is not likely to be found here. You owe it to your children to seek out expert advice on that.

 
Old 10-25-2008, 10:41 AM
 
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Maybe that was my underlying reason for losing all the weight. I really dont know. Like I said I have been unhappy for years
 
Old 10-25-2008, 10:42 AM
 
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Your right about needing expert advise to make the trasition smooth. Maybe that will be what we gain out of counseling.
 
Old 10-25-2008, 10:44 AM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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That's not true, really. One of the sure signs that a woman is looking elsewhere is that she often loses weight and starts buying a nicer wardrobe, etc.

20yrsinBranson
Nah I have to disagree. I think most women who loose weight do so for their own satisfaction, well being, self esteem and health reasons. Not because she's looking to cheat.
 
Old 10-25-2008, 10:47 AM
 
Location: in purgurtory in London
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Originally Posted by MS. Confused View Post
you say you heard of the skinny women getting fat and the husband leaving but not the fat girls gets skinny and leaves the man. So is that why I am catching so much slack. If I was a man it would be ok. Or better yet, If I was not so honest and just came on saying I was leaving my husband it would get different responses.
If you were a man your attitude would still be skanky.

Last edited by LadyRobyn; 10-25-2008 at 11:03 AM.. Reason: Closing this thread...no need for TWO threads on the same topic.
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