can you girls evaluate a man's confidence without talking to him? (attracted, dance)
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Yes. When a man walks with confidence it is obvious. You can tell a confident man the moment he walks into a room. Usually confident men smile and say hello and they just ooze confidence. It's almost an arrogance but I hate using that word because some people find it to be a negative word, but it really is an arrogance.
true that is, overly confidence can make you feel superiority, overbearing pride and arrogance is the definate description of it. Maybe just maintane a confidence stance of nature. i know some of my friends that are overly confidence and they intend to be arrogant at most times towards his friends and even some women he contends against.
Yes, I sure can determine it. Whether it puts me off or not really depends on how low his self confidence, ambition, and assertion is. I cannot blanket-statement this. Sometimes all it takes is a smoochie to curl his toes to make him feel like a Lion. ;-)
Don't be so hard on yourself. . . those that matter won't care.
Don't be so hard on yourself. . . those that matter won't care.[/quote] I like that..I will relay that to my teen daughter!
two weeks ago i came across this really beautiful asian girl, i mesmerised at her beauty as i walked out of lecture full of hundred pupils and when she saw me she tried to put a smile on i didn't smile back it tend to put her off.
Another thought is that you were staring at her first, because of her beauty. Then, she caught you staring at her, so she smiled at you. First, stop putting beautiful women on a pedestal. Secondly, you are way overthinking this. Train yourself so that you automatically smile back at anyone that smiles at you. You want to have this be your immediate response, always. Otherwise, like in the case of this beautiful Asian girl, you are going to come off as creepy and stalkerish if she keeps catching you staring at her and you never smile back.
Her smiling at you was not an invitation to ask her out on a date. So don't get all put on the spot and uncomfortable, however if you had smiled back at her, it could have lead to eventually asking her out to coffee to talk about the class. If you lack confidence about asking a pretty girl out, start by making it your goal to first be their friend, maybe a study partner. Then the next step is to relax and realize that they are human, just like you. And instead of trying to sweep her off her feet and wonder if she likes you enough to accept a date from you, just try to make her laugh. Just be good company, someone she enjoys being with as a friend first. Don't force yourself to go out on any dates that you're stressing out on the inside, because that's no fun for you. Just get out there and make a bunch of female buddies and friends first.
Most women can size up a man within a few seconds. But its okay to feel a bit insecure, we all feel it at times, its when it stops you from doing things, such as smiling back or saying hello, that its an issue.
Just say to yourself, yes I'm a bit uncomfortable or shy, but *** it, I'll try pretend I'm not. Sometimes you need to pretend you're confident and trick yourself into thinking so, and before you know it, you are comfortable.
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