Would women date a unemployed guy? (partner, relations, reasons, people)

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

If this can cheer you up, you're at least better off than one person - me! You're lost in your own effin' country you probably have tolerance for.

So are you trying to say you being stuck in this country is like me being stuck in one big PA?

[babigyrl5]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

I find this quite sad...

I agree lol but unfortunatly the only time I wasnt cheated on was when I had the power and I was needed. I have a sense of security knowing that Im needed. Its goes both ways though, if I dont feel like my guy is bringing anything to the table he better watch out lol. And is not that I wasnt bringing anything to the table, he just didnt care for what I had to offer. He was wealthy, super smart and well cultured. I was too so the only thing I was bringing to the table was my sense of adventure and he didnt need that, he was fine without it. Most of my friends come to me to know the inside scoop on cool things to do but since he wasnt into that it didnt really matter. He was into cars which wasnt me and even when I tried to learn up on it I really wasnt interested and it showed I was just doing it for him soooo I like a guy that needs me. If I wasnt in the picture he'd be missing something and lost. like I said, Im selfish and thats pretty sad lol but my longest and most fulfilling relationships were with the people who needed me Im a natural giver, if I have nothing to give, i dont feel like Im in a good place

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

So are you trying to say you being stuck in this country is like me being stuck in one big PA?

Aha! And I'd bet you have more people in this world than I do.

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Aha! And I'd bet you have more people in this world than I do.

Shoot me some numbers...

[Huckleberry3911948]

Originally Posted by babigyrl5

I agree lol but unfortunatly the only time I wasnt cheated on was when I had the power and I was needed. I have a sense of security knowing that Im needed. Its goes both ways though, if I dont feel like my guy is bringing anything to the table he better watch out lol. And is not that I wasnt bringing anything to the table, he just didnt care for what I had to offer. He was wealthy, super smart and well cultured. I was too so the only thing I was bringing to the table was my sense of adventure and he didnt need that, he was fine without it. Most of my friends come to me to know the inside scoop on cool things to do but since he wasnt into that it didnt really matter. He was into cars which wasnt me and even when I tried to learn up on it I really wasnt interested and it showed I was just doing it for him soooo I like a guy that needs me. If I wasnt in the picture he'd be missing something and lost. like I said, Im selfish and thats pretty sad lol but my longest and most fulfilling relationships were with the people who needed me Im a natural giver, if I have nothing to give, i dont feel like Im in a good place

this is a very very interesting and insightful post. i give rep for this one.

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

Shoot me some numbers...

Well, you both have:

Me
Chow
Artsy
MLV
Hoboken (Sierra-yes Stuck-no)
RCM
CPG
Lovesmountians
Rance
Sandyco

the list goes on and on....

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by StuckPA

Shoot me some numbers...

Well, as far as family goes, 2 aunts and 3 cousins across the ocean I didn't see much even when I was living there. How's that?

Originally Posted by mrstewart

Well, you both have:

Me
Chow
Artsy
MLV
Hoboken (Sierra-yes Stuck-no)
RCM
CPG
Lovesmountians
Rance
Sandyco

the list goes on and on....

Oh, yeah... I always loved having abbreviations by my side...

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Well, as far as family goes, 2 aunts and 3 cousins across the ocean I didn't see much even when I was living there. How's that?



Oh, yeah... I always loved having abbreviations by my side...

We love you!! I forgot to add Cat and huckleberry...

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by mrstewart

We love you!! I forgot to add Cat and huckleberry...

When did you become the Speaker of the House of my lovers...?! Poor people...

[StuckPA]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Well, as far as family goes, 2 aunts and 3 cousins across the ocean I didn't see much even when I was living there. How's that?

Ok well I guess I got a couple more than you,I got my mom and sis in another state who I don't see or talk to that often. Step-sisters & brothers who live in an even further state who I hardly ever see or talk to. One aunt,uncle,and cousin who seem to have seceeded from the family who I haven't heard from in years,another aunt,uncle,and cousin across state that I see once a year.
And a handful of semi-friends scattered across the country...
So sure they're there but if we don't talk that's almost like no one being there anyway.
Anyway this should be on my other thread about loners b/c that's what I was sort of talking about...