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Oh...here are several others. Avoid women who follow this script:
Okay. You pick her up. She looks great. She's making the good first impression. She's really feeling comfortable, and starts to talk about herself. And she begins to launch into this series of disasters that make up her life. The psychotic boyfriends. The boss who fired her for absolutely no reason. The mixups with the credit card company, the phone company, and the bank. The friend or two who got ticked off at her and refuse to talk to her. And, guess what? None of these events ARE HER FAULT. Everything is everybody else's fault. She is innocent, a victim of this vast conspiracy to screw up her otherwise blameless life. When you meet somebody like that--run as far and as fast as you can. For you will be the next person to be blamed.
The woman who talks about how many men put the moves on her. I'm not talking asking for her phone number. I'm talking about the legions of men who lunged at her. Mind you, she's telling you this while flirting outrageously, touching you constantly, and showing off her generous decollete. So you know that, if you make a move on this woman, you will be instantly rebuffed and join the legion of men who tried but failed. In fact, I interviewed a woman like that. Five minutes into the interview, I called in a female employee to sit in, just so I'd have a witness that I wasn't trying to grab the woman's knee. If you encounter this person, run away. For she lives for the kill.
The woman who talks about herself non-stop. Now, don't get me wrong. Women are their own favorite subject. If you spend the first date simply asking her questions about herself and appearing halfway interested, she'll think you're the best conversationalist in the world. Nevertheless, at some point during the evening, she oughta show at least a bit of interest in you. If there's no spark of curiosity at all, then you know you have a total narcissist on your hands. Run away. She's there to soak up your attention and give you absolutely none in return.
Agree 100%
I have also interviewed a woman similar to this for a position as a coworker. My report to the group was "She is one of the least accountable people I have ever met, and I would have difficulty working with her. She is almost a lawsuit waiting to happen." My supervisor hired her because I think he finds her attractive. I started looking for a new job the next day.
Net result of the hire...my former employer lost customers, 6 months off work for her to deal with 'stress'. Several meetings with HR as she felt CUSTOMERS were harrassing her. Me, new job with 20% more salary.
more and more dating is beginning to look like a job interview.
Heck yeah. Even one night stands will be this way soon.
"So, Bob, what would you say is the biggest weakness when it comes to your genitals?"
"Well, Ms. Jones, I would have to say my biggest weakness is my genitals work too hard. In fact they work so hard they sometimes have little time for the rest of the family, especially my two boys...."
lol Job interview....you are right, they are finding ways to "exclude you" instead of finding ways to be friends, have fun, or start a good relationship....the interviewing is a great idea; however, people are way to perfectionistic and neurotic about everything.
I rarely get dates or asked out on dates, so I'm glad I don't have to go through that turmoil.
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Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948
more and more dating is beginning to look like a job interview.
lol very funny of you to say that but yeah it seems that way too...I don't do one night stands though...so I'm glad I don't have to be questioned about by privates.
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Originally Posted by crbcrbrgv
Heck yeah. Even one night stands will be this way soon.
"So, Bob, what would you say is the biggest weakness when it comes to your genitals?"
"Well, Ms. Jones, I would have to say my biggest weakness is my genitals work too hard. In fact they work so hard they sometimes have little time for the rest of the family, especially my two boys...."
Good lord. I'm not sure I'd wish that on my worst enemy.
Honestly, I was SO thankful that I have a first date rule that I ALWAYS drive myself. I thought he didn't like me and that's why he was being a pig, but he called me and tried to get another date the next day. When I said no he told me I was uptight... I'll take uptight over whatever he is!
You should be afraid! I am personally terrified of any guy who lives in his parents' basement, if they won't let him in the main house it's a major tip off.
You should be afraid! I am personally terrified of any guy who lives in his parents' basement, if they won't let him in the main house it's a major tip off.
Good grief! I suppose my ex-husbands were great catches! Oh, well, I'll just enjoy my own fine company!
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