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Tell him he doesn't have to move, doesn't have to leave his lady or anything like that. All you require is that he sign over his social security and any pension checks he might get. If he has a Will, he needs to change that as well, making you the sole beneficiary.
Now ... I realize you may have a conscience and in a case like that we go to Plan B, which is ... have him put those things into MY name. First name Twinkle, last name Toes.
Can't blame the man for trying I guess lol. You obviously have something he likes and wants which is quite sweet and also a nice compliment. But, yes if you are not interested in him, the sooner you tell him, the better. Don't let it go on to long or he will think it's fine to do it more, and continue to push harder.
Sounds pretty harmless at this point. Truth is people find things they don't want as pushy and creepy. If it was Johnny Depp or someone like that persuing you, you would have a different opinion. You know nothing about him etc other then that he is really into you (at least on a sexual and attraction level). Take it as a compliment but get him off your back fast before he thinks you're into him and he won't leave you alone.
At least you can look at yourself a little prettier in the mirror for that one. That's not a funny story at all. It's quite a nice boost to your opinion of yourself and your confidence. Just play it right and get rid of him now LOL!
Best of luck and tell us how you end up handling it hehe .
Tell him he doesn't have to move, doesn't have to leave his lady or anything like that. All you require is that he sign over his social security and any pension checks he might get. If he has a Will, he needs to change that as well, making you the sole beneficiary.
OMG, someone I used to work with always thought along those lines. Deja vu
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Originally Posted by JonathanLB
Wait, wait, wait... so if a girl talks to me, you're telling me she DOESN'T want me?! Wow this changes everything.
Do you live in a blue and white trailer, by any chance?
I'd totally be put off by someone wanting to move in with me before a first date, before even having had a real conversation with me. That's creepy stuff. Some people just can't control that connection between thought and speech, though. Could've been one of those instances.
The connection is once you think something you have to say it fast as possible right? Right guys...? Right.....? Guys?
I've given this a lot of thought. I've prayed. I've meditated. I stood on my head. I drank lots of water and read "Frog and Toad Are Friends" 5,000 times. I asked a baby, just like Elmo does.
Well, I did all of this and ....
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