What do you do when you have been betrayed?

[mb919]

Originally Posted by Lisa_from_Debary

For better or worse, you are marrying the entire family...

Quoted for truth.

[Tonythetigerman]

If he loves you and cares about you he will make it right by contacting them and demanding an appology or something similar. If he dont then you have to ask yourself if he really respects you. Then you may want to consider the both of you going to councilling to find out what the core issues are. I would be very concerned and he has a lot of explaining to do.

[onethatsbroken]

I am having these troubles now and I have only been married for 3 years!

[onethatsbroken]

Well not married *yet* but going to be We have been off and on, I am wondering if I should go any further myself

[Tonythetigerman]

Originally Posted by onethatsbroken

Well not married *yet* but going to be We have been off and on, I am wondering if I should go any further myself

He would have to have a good explaination for him not saying anything and then a good plan of action for the future, one that you were happy with, before Id consider marrying him. What you think?