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Old 10-28-2008, 06:58 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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I agree with ArtsyGuy - I think sometimes people who don't know how to end a relationship will look for a way out. You are right for the picking with your job. I agree that you have a job and you are obviously trying to better yourself so I say good riddance. If she can't see the way you are heading, then she isn't worth trying to hold onto.
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Old 10-28-2008, 08:46 AM
 
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Are there any other issues that you're not telling us? What do you do in your free time? What sort of "quality" time do you guys spend together? Do you go out to the bars at all? How do you spend your money? (do you spend it in a responsible way?) Do you have your own car? Do you pay all your own bills (except for the living expenses obviously) ........

I don't think we have all of the information needed to determine a good answer here.....
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Old 10-28-2008, 09:43 AM
 
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Are there any other issues that you're not telling us? What do you do in your free time? What sort of "quality" time do you guys spend together? Do you go out to the bars at all? How do you spend your money? (do you spend it in a responsible way?) Do you have your own car? Do you pay all your own bills (except for the living expenses obviously) ........

I don't think we have all of the information needed to determine a good answer here.....
I hang out with her in my free time. we have a lot of quality time. yes we go out to the bars together. i have my own car i actually just finished paying it off. and i don't really have any expenses.
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Old 10-28-2008, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I hang out with her in my free time. we have a lot of quality time. yes we go out to the bars together. i have my own car i actually just finished paying it off. and i don't really have any expenses.
What about my question from above?

Have you made some detailed plans of what you want your life to look like after you graduate? If not, you should - even if it's just a rough estimate based on what kind of job you can get after graduation - and have you shared those plans with her?
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Old 10-28-2008, 10:02 AM
 
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If she can't understand where you are headed, then she can go to hell.

Not to be so mean... but there really are a ton of people out there.

Hilarious!!

Hey, my mother dated the guy who now owns Dominos Pizza! She never married him but said he had a VW car when they went out on that date. What's wrong with the pizza business???

Dude, she just wants you to cater to her every need. When they are not met you are going to be the most miserable guy in the world. You find someone that is going to support you!! Someone that is behind you 100%! Someone to tell you they are proud of you for your accomplishments and such. Nothing like dragging a wagon with square wheels. Seriously, you don't need a mate like that. Then again, she maybe just using you for an excuse like some others have said.

If she is complaining now.... Oh boy! You will be miserable for the rest of your life if you marry her.
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