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I've got a coworker who seems to enjoy it immensely, too. It's beyond me how anybody can like it... I suppose it falls into the category of "different strokes for different folks."
Dating is better than sitting around being lonely. It's not that I really enjoy it per se, but I do like meeting new people and the experience will help me for when I meet the right gal again. I'm also not going to have that gal just show up on my doorstep someday, I realize I have to wade in and put in some effort.
There are so many reasons why I'm single. I'll list a few:
1. Being an only child, I've spent copious amounts of my time alone. I've had a lot of time to learn about myself, life and people in general. 96% of the time, I'm okay living a life that is virtually free of female companionship, sex, etc. For the other 4%, there's everything else we often desire in others.
2. I do not agree with the 'social design' of dating and choose not to participate.
3. I am convinced that many people haven't a clue of what they truly desire in someone. Their desires change like the wind and I think that's unhealthy.
4. I enjoy the freedom and independence of my life. I am only responsible for myself. I can do anything I desire whenever I want.
5. I lead an unconventional life. I don't subscribe to die-hard beliefs, labels, etc. I feel surrounded by a society of puppets and that's enough to deal with for me.
6. Dating seems more like 'window shopping' than anything else. Few people are interested in the person behind the face, clothes and accessories. We want instant gratification or nothing at all. We want everything to be perfect, when we're not even of perfection ourselves.
I'll tell you why! Because you're too DARN NICE!!!
Thanks Sierra, sometimes I think if I became a mean-spirited person and treated women like dirt, they'd all start showing up at my door unexpectedly. A lot of guys like that seem to have more women than they know what to do with! Go figure.
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