Originally Posted by mir_ny
Honestly if i had a clue I wouldn't have ask for help. Was checking to see if there was anything I could do to help. apparently the only answer is to leave him.
Like i said previously I want to know I did everything possible to make this work. I don't want any what ifs.
Honey, there are always what ifs. It's what life is about. There are no 100% sure things. I would think you would have more what ifs if you stay with him for years and find out nothing has changed. It's not easy to leave someone you love but love isn't always enough.