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Old 10-30-2008, 04:14 PM
 
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Question to ALL (yes, men and women):

Let's say that your loved one is one hell of a great person. Treats you well, loyal, attentive, bedroom-side very attractive, etc. etc.

Is there any other matter about the other person that could be a deal breaker in your relationship?

I'll start. No matter how good of a guy the guy is, I could NOT stand being in a relationship with a lazy, nonambitious guy. Therefore, I could never date an inheritance baby (who prefers to live off of the inheritance w/ no job, etc.), nor could I be with someone that wants to be a potential "househusband" (sorry guys!)
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:18 PM
 
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drug addict(Pot included), alcoholic, or personality disorder that isn't of the entertaining type.........ROTFL.....gotta keep me entertained ya know....in other words boring and passive aggressive and withholding and sneaky are deal breakers.
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:20 PM
 
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infidelity, drugs, alcohol...lazy...doesn't pitch in and help...abusive but then, I wouldn't even think of dating anyone like that
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:20 PM
 
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dang girlfriend you've got some super high standards there....<snap snap>

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infidelity, drugs, alcohol...lazy...doesn't pitch in and help...abusive but then, I wouldn't even think of dating anyone like that
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:21 PM
 
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infidelity, drugs, alcohol...lazy...doesn't pitch in and help...abusive
Sorry, I meant to say "things other than the usual dealbreakers (infidelity, violence, etc.)". Seems that the "lazy" factor is a common dealbreaker between you and me!
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:22 PM
 
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You passed over my post and completed ignored it...why?
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Pelion, South Carolina/orig. from Cape May, NJ
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After being married to an alcoholic for 12 years, then marrying a man who pays out the ass for child-support for a kid he doesn't get to see, I'd have to say my deal-breakers from now on will be: NO drunks/druggies, and NO guys with kids.
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:25 PM
 
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You passed over my post and completed ignored it...why?
Why do you think I needed to respond to yours?
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:26 PM
 
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Sorry, I meant to say "things other than the usual dealbreakers (infidelity, violence, etc.)". Seems that the "lazy" factor is a common dealbreaker between you and me!
ok, then the lazy part would probably be a deal breaker if we had a talk and he still continued to do so...

another thing that would really bug me, big time is someone who constantly needed to correct me in public to feed his ego...we'd talk about that one to...
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Old 10-30-2008, 04:27 PM
 
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dang girlfriend you've got some super high standards there....<snap snap>
you betcha, live and learn!
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