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Old 10-31-2008, 03:59 AM
 
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How do you think, why cheating is a reson for a devorse?
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Old 10-31-2008, 05:06 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Isn`t cheating on your spouse reason enough for a divorce?
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Old 10-31-2008, 06:01 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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Because trust has been violated. Because once you marry your mate you belong to each other. These and many other reasons. Now if my wife would cheat on me and I find out, I would never trust her again and why go on living with this ordeal?
So yes, IMO it is a reason for divorce.
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Old 10-31-2008, 06:26 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Depends, was the cheating a one-time deal or was it a love affair. Was the rest of the marriage essentially good? There's no excuse for cheating, but sometimes one person drives the other person away and when problems are brought out, you can try to move forward.

It's a big hurdle, but it's not unheardof to be able to move past it.
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Old 10-31-2008, 04:01 PM
 
Location: Southern Arizona
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Default Don't Cheat

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Depends, was the cheating a one-time deal or was it a love affair. Was the rest of the marriage essentially good? There's no excuse for cheating, but sometimes one person drives the other person away and when problems are brought out, you can try to move forward.
If there are problems in the marriage, solve the problems, or end the marriage, but don't cheat. Cheating doesn't solve the problems, only adds one more problem.
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Old 10-31-2008, 04:04 PM
 
Location: When will Hell Freeze Phoenix, AZ
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Default So did YOU cheat?

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How do you think, why cheating is a reson for a devorse?
So did you cheat and now you regret it? Every couple/person has a list of deal-breakers in a relationship. To some, cheating is one of them, to others its not.
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Old 10-31-2008, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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You mite want to git a devorse if you finds out yo man bin cheetin on you. Or if you the wun doin the cheetin, you mite be the wun on the uther ind of the devorse.
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Old 10-31-2008, 05:51 PM
 
Location: When will Hell Freeze Phoenix, AZ
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You mite want to git a devorse if you finds out yo man bin cheetin on you. Or if you the wun doin the cheetin, you mite be the wun on the uther ind of the devorse.
OMG I can't stop laughing!!!!!!
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Old 10-31-2008, 06:11 PM
 
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How do you think, why cheating is a reson for a devorse?
If you can forgive that's good, but if you cannot forget and continue to bring it up...you might as well divorce.
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Old 10-31-2008, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Whoville....
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If there are problems in the marriage, solve the problems, or end the marriage, but don't cheat. Cheating doesn't solve the problems, only adds one more problem.
ITA. The cheating makes any problems you had 10 times worse. If I live to be 100, I don't think I'll ever trust my husband again. Sadly, that will probably be the end of us. I'm just hanging in here for the kids now.
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