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Old 07-03-2011, 11:13 AM
 
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I love the stories! They keep me going! Right now, i have a guy who i've always looked out for! He was my childhood sweetheart! This man was in prison when he lost his mom (2002)! I was would try to keep him encouraged! He's done so much to me that it's ridiculous! However, i always forgave him! Now its over! His aunt gave him a nice amount of money! He bought a car and didn't offer me anything! I called him because i needed help with a bill, he told me in other words, you're on your own! Yes, i'm hurt! But i know karma will bite him in the ass! Any ideas how karma will hit him?

 
Old 07-03-2011, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Fort Lauderdale, FL
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My ex began cheating on me while i was pregnant. It completely destroyed me at the time. We were in different states at the time, but i just had this feeling. Well, after i had my son, i moved back home and busted him shortly after. We broke up, and shortly after, he moved in with this person, she was pregnant, and they were engaged! During their "engagement" she physically abused him. So much so, that he called me after escaping a fight to see seek shelter. Of course i let him in for the night (i was over him by then and didn't want my son's father to be involved in domestic violence, police, etc. and i felt bad, he had bruises on him.) Anyway, they still got married, had another child, and after years of abuse from his wife, my ex busts her w/another man!! He files for divorce!!

The great part about this story is that i didn't have to do anything. He got his on his own. That made it all the more sweeter. To this day he tells me that he regrets what he did. It's too bad he didn't feel that way when i still cared. Oh well!
 
Old 07-03-2011, 11:56 PM
 
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i would love to indulge is stories of how people got karmic revenge on their cheating spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. I am going through a divorce- my husband left me to move in with his mistress and while i feel i have worked hard to stay upbeat and strong there are still days here and there i get very depressed.

I know things are this way for a reason, and when i am a divorcee i'll have a new lease on life to begin again with my eyes open and stop accepting lies and cheating as a part of a successful marriage. Even knowing that there are still 'gray days'.

So please take a few minutes to tell me of the inevitable event that happened to you or a friend, that brought a smile to your face and great satisfaction to your soul after bad karma reared it's ugly head!



when i was 13, there was a guy i was head over heels for! Me and that guy were sexually active of course! However, this guy treated me horrible! I was all kinds of ******* in front of his friends and everything! When i say i was treated bad, it got to the point where as i hated going outside! He and two other females spreaded so many rumors about me, which made me dread going to school! Anyway, i ended up pregnant! I told him that i was pregnant! He told me in so many words it's not mine, move around! So by me being 13, my mama wasn't going either! So i ended up terminating the pregnancy! The whole time, there was another girl who had gotten pregnant by him off of a bet (yea he bet some other guys that he could sleep with her)! She had the baby and they were the happiest couple! It wouldn't be long after that that some of his friends came and told him that the girl was sleeping with everybody! He didn't believe it! But here's the gotcha gotcha: He finds a letter from a man in prison! In the letter, the man asked "how is my daughter doing?" so from that day forward, he had doubt as to whether the baby was his! The crazy thing is he vouched to kill a child that was his only to take care of a child that you'll have doubts about the rest of your life! If you ask me, the child isn't his! That's my opinion, it may be a fact! But one fact i can state is karma is a beyotch! 14 years later, he's still trying to come back! Smh!!!!
 
Old 07-04-2011, 12:07 AM
 
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Well my ex who cheated on me got prego to the guy, and she admitted to me that she F'd up big time.

She still wanted to have my baby, too bad.
 
Old 07-04-2011, 12:32 AM
 
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Karma is not real. All of you are preaching this "karma will get my cheating ex back!" But I have a question, apparently karma got you all back too since you were cheated on in the first place.

I hate how people use the term today over everything but forget its supposed to be a 2 way street. Its not just "bad things happen to good people" but its also supposed to be good, but that's not the case.

If you have a good man who does constant good deeds, but he gets cancer, while you have have a very bad mean man in perfect health and is living the good life are you going to call that karma too?

That's right, all of you sit back expecting some blind force to be getting your ex's back when you're not actually sure anything will happen.
 
Old 07-04-2011, 12:40 AM
 
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Don't buy into Karma... Seen too many bad things happen to good people. And good things happen to bad people.
 
Old 07-04-2011, 12:46 AM
 
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Directed towards the OP..
Karma does indeed exist..The results may be slow in the making however one should never wish ill will on another because this is destructive as well..

My exp. is similiar to yours..My ex moved in with the woman he was having an affair with after I kicked him out. He would be counter productive and call me late at night just to tell me how great he felt and how good this woman was for him..after the first call of this nature I allowed the machine to pick up or deleted his texts..
It took 8 months after living with this woman before she was onto him..she knew we were married when she chose to indulge in an affair..so she began getting suspicious if he was late from work, did not call and so forth. He gave my address for porn..lol..and then I had the address forwarded to his home and she flipped out..she began calling him a child, not doing enough around the home ect..My son would tell me of the fights..
Then he left her because he could no longer take it..he said he was sorry to me and tried to get with me..lol..when he chose to leave? He did not tell her but waited until she took her son out of state for a month..wow..
This new girl? well he was already talking to her when he left the home..moved into her home, does all the work, cooking, cleaning..and pays the mortgage..according to my son he sleeps in his room when he is there and most likely all the time when he is not there. They fight constantly..he looks older than his 40 years, looks miserable everytime I see him and just a month ago when I was preparing my sons bag to go for the weekend he stated.."I miss you, your smile, infectious laugh, the good times"

Karma..does not always mean destitution or death...it can mean realizing down the road how good you had it and how you can never have it back..
 
Old 07-04-2011, 12:54 AM
 
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Directed towards the OP..
Karma does indeed exist..The results may be slow in the making however one should never wish ill will on another because this is destructive as well..

My exp. is similiar to yours..My ex moved in with the woman he was having an affair with after I kicked him out. He would be counter productive and call me late at night just to tell me how great he felt and how good this woman was for him..after the first call of this nature I allowed the machine to pick up or deleted his texts..
It took 8 months after living with this woman before she was onto him..she knew we were married when she chose to indulge in an affair..so she began getting suspicious if he was late from work, did not call and so forth. He gave my address for porn..lol..and then I had the address forwarded to his home and she flipped out..she began calling him a child, not doing enough around the home ect..My son would tell me of the fights..
Then he left her because he could no longer take it..he said he was sorry to me and tried to get with me..lol..when he chose to leave? He did not tell her but waited until she took her son out of state for a month..wow..
This new girl? well he was already talking to her when he left the home..moved into her home, does all the work, cooking, cleaning..and pays the mortgage..according to my son he sleeps in his room when he is there and most likely all the time when he is not there. They fight constantly..he looks older than his 40 years, looks miserable everytime I see him and just a month ago when I was preparing my sons bag to go for the weekend he stated.."I miss you, your smile, infectious laugh, the good times"

Karma..does not always mean destitution or death...it can mean realizing down the road how good you had it and how you can never have it back..
That guy was a freaking idiot.

All I have to say about this post.
 
Old 07-04-2011, 01:06 AM
 
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That guy was a freaking idiot.

All I have to say about this post.
awwww...I have heard this before but one more time is always good..
Not doing a PSA..but I took pride in being a wife and still do as a mother..and while I HAD many chances to cheat I always took a long look in the mirror and stated "Why are you even indulging this? You are married, a good woman and a mother"
I learned long ago that 2 wrongs do not make a right because eventually what one is doing is losing their moral fibre and integrity..and the ability to look back in one's past and say "I took the higher road" and I have no regrets that I cannot love with..
What I told him after he said what he said a month ago was .."I have always kept it 100 with you the whole time..I have always been faithful..it was your loss and your choices that have led you to where you are today" He said he knew and he walked out..thats karma
 
Old 07-04-2011, 01:09 AM
 
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awwww...I have heard this before but one more time is always good..
Not doing a PSA..but I took pride in being a wife and still do as a mother..and while I HAD many chances to cheat I always took a long look in the mirror and stated "Why are you even indulging this? You are married, a good woman and a mother"
I learned long ago that 2 wrongs do not make a right because eventually what one is doing is losing their moral fibre and integrity..and the ability to look back in one's past and say "I took the higher road" and I have no regrets that I cannot love with..
What I told him after he said what he said a month ago was .."I have always kept it 100 with you the whole time..I have always been faithful..it was your loss and your choices that have led you to where you are today" He said he knew and he walked out..thats karma
That's karma with a vengeance. It punched him in the face while his back was turned and it took that long to realize what he had actually lost!

Took the one I had a year before she said what she did.
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