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Old 11-02-2008, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Iowa
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If I were desperate, I would call escort service instead of blowing off my money in a strip club.

As for your bafflement, I can only tell you that NEVER listen to advices given by women on how to get a woman (including what you see on TV or magazines, which are all craps written by women and those men too clueless to realize their cluelessness). Women are the most clueless creature on this planet. You need to look at the real qualities on these men that make them so attractive to their gf as opposed to bashing them for their supposedly disgusting behavior. There are rules that people talk, there are rules that people follow, you need to spend more time learning rules people actually follow.
I didn't blow ANY money there... only spent a few bucks on some beer.

"spend time learning", lol... I've never had much of a problem attracting people. By your advice I should change who I am to get these kind of girls.

Never going to happen.

Call me crazy, but the kinds of girls that want guys that spend all their time in bars and strip clubs aren't ones worth my time. These women are in fact the clueless ones that you speak of. I can bash these guys all I want- they in turn can bash me for what I feel is completely disrespectful.

All woman aren't clueless. Maybe it's just the ones that you are going after that would lead you to this conclusion.
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Old 11-02-2008, 07:33 PM
 
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low quality people attract to other low quality people....and quality people are harder to find......so don't get your lil' panties into a bunch
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Old 11-02-2008, 07:35 PM
 
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...to a stripclub last night. He came up from Omaha, and they aren't allowed there, so made me go there. I never go to these places, so felt a bit strange heading there.

I sat in the back, not observing the dancers, but observing the people that were there. Some were people obviously desperate, which is to be expected... but I saw countless people come in with their girlfriends, and leave them to sit alone so they could go down to the front row.

How the hell do these people remain in relationships and others like myself struggle to find a decent one? Amazing to me.

I guess the point of this thread is to just hear any stories you all have of places like these... whether you like them, whether you ever go, whether you've ever brought you're SO there, etc...
Dragged, ehhh??? Hog tied and all, huh???
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Old 11-02-2008, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Dragged, ehhh??? Hog tied and all, huh???

Huh? Never heard of that? It's quite common

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Old 11-02-2008, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Yeah, there was full nudity at the place I was at. There was only one rule- "No Sexual Acts". Touching was abound though, if you know what I mean...

I got dragged to another one in Toronto with this same friend, and what I saw here compared to there was harmless.........
Hmmmm, I guess that would depend on what you consider "sexual acts" LOL
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Old 11-02-2008, 07:47 PM
 
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Huh? Never heard of that? It's quite common
OMG!! Where do you and Sierra find these things??? That is hysterical
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Old 11-02-2008, 08:32 PM
 
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did you get a lap dance or anything exciting that the forum members should know about??
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Old 11-02-2008, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Lower Michigan
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I haven't been to one in ages but it depends on which one you go to and if they know you as a regular and the most important thing to them is the size of your wallet. That is what the girls are after, trying to make as much as they can. Some would let you do some extra curricular activity but it was not free, if you had your money on the table you were popular, when the money goes away so do they. Spending a few bucks on beer I find hard to believe, usually you could buy at least a six-pack for the price of a beer, then a cover charge in some Clubs. Some of the girls could probably be called low class but those kind don't just work in the clubs! Other girls or I should say young women make a lot of money dancing as long as they stay out of the fast lane of partying etc. Maybe I'll have to go back to one and see if it has changed in the last ten years
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Old 11-02-2008, 08:33 PM
 
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I need to put on some tight undies and start dancing at the local gay night clubs to make some good money...lol...just kidding...however, I'd probably meet much kinder clientele and do less real work..

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I haven't been to one in ages but it depends on which one you go to and if they know you as a regular and the most important thing to them is the size of your wallet. That is what the girls are after, trying to make as much as they can. Some would let you do some extra curricular activity but it was not free, if you had your money on the table you were popular, when the money goes away so do they. Spending a few bucks on beer I find hard to believe, usually you could buy at least a six-pack for the price of a beer, then a cover charge in some Clubs. Some of the girls could probably be called low class but those kind don't just work in the clubs! Other girls or I should say young women make a lot of money dancing as long as they stay out of the fast lane of partying etc. Maybe I'll have to go back to one and see if it has changed in the last ten years
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Old 11-02-2008, 10:51 PM
 
Location: Iowa
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did you get a lap dance or anything exciting that the forum members should know about??
Were you asking me?
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