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Old 11-07-2008, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Va Beach
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I would suggest to stay away from guys with baggage. First sign is that they talk about their ex alot or blame everything on their ex that went wrong in their last relationship.
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Old 11-07-2008, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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twinkle toes you really arent that nice of a person huh? do you just go around insulting people to make yourself feel better? Its rude. im not a flake im not the stero-typical blonde popping bubbles and twirling my hair. Like i said I am very put together. Im the only 19 year old i know who has her own place car job and going to school without anyones help. so thanks...
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Old 11-07-2008, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Kelsie,
You are trying to hard. Alot of girls your age are. I would know. Enjoy life, be grateful for where you are, and don't worry about it. There are enough troubles to contend with just living day to day in this crazy world. It's perfectly fine to desire someone special in your life, but there is a right time for everything.
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Old 11-07-2008, 02:00 PM
 
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Play nice children...
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Old 11-07-2008, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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twinkle toes you really arent that nice of a person huh? do you just go around insulting people to make yourself feel better? Its rude. im not a flake im not the stero-typical blonde popping bubbles and twirling my hair. Like i said I am very put together. Im the only 19 year old i know who has her own place car job and going to school without anyones help. so thanks...
Yeah, you got it. My self-esteem is so low that when I happened upon this post I saw it as an opportunity to boost myself up in this world. I feel so much better about myself now ... thanks to you!!!
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Old 11-07-2008, 05:42 PM
 
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but I don't wanna <throws tantrum and wets pants>

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Play nice children...
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Old 11-07-2008, 05:56 PM
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Location: NC/SC Border Patrol
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twinkle toes you really arent that nice of a person huh? do you just go around insulting people to make yourself feel better? Its rude. im not a flake im not the stero-typical blonde popping bubbles and twirling my hair. Like i said I am very put together. Im the only 19 year old i know who has her own place car job and going to school without anyones help. so thanks...
Well it is not hard to see why you lose things sometimes. You have a lot on your plate. Stress is the result and when stress is present the other things happen.

Now about the relationships. I know it is old fashioned, but if I read between the lines and got the right message, you commit without a wedding ring. The best way not to get hurt is to get the wedding ring on first and then get physical. If they really care about you, they will want it that way too. If they don't, then you will not be as badly hurt. Physical relationships are more involved for women than men. It is sometimes just sex for them.

I had three brothers. Men divide women into two lists. Those they use and those they love. You have to protect yourself from being used. If they are really interested and worth having, you won't need to do anything except be yourself. You cannot except a man to value you more than you value yourself.
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Old 11-08-2008, 08:53 AM
 
Location: Sherman Oaks, CA
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Kelsie, you're only 19. Why are you looking for a serious relationship in the first place? You're in school, which is wonderful, and you should be dating casually (not having sex with anyone casually, though!) and building friendships, so you have people to do things with. Our society is way over sexualized; people can lead very productive lives without trying to nail down a partner!
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Old 11-08-2008, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Yes, I too was new once as well. So .... I just want to thank the anonymous person who repped me because it adds to my rep poinrs, which I LOVE!!! WoooooHoooooooo!!!!!!!
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