Positive or Negative Reaction?? What do you think? (how to, guys, love)

[AdrianaM]

I had something happen to me last week, with this guy..and we are friends and we flirt on and off...but we never seem to be able to get serious. never want to bring anything up b/c I didn't wanna loose him as a friend, but I think he is just shy...cause its obvious we both like each-other. I went to visit him at work last week, b/c I knew he got off early..so I was going by to see if he could help me study for my Final in Math I have soon.

I had gone to a lunch in with friends earlier that day, so I guess you can say I was dressed really nice..I was in jeans and a shirt, but they were dressier..it was a bit dressier then I usually look. He didnt know I was coming and when I walked in and said " Hey"..he said Hey, and then when he turned around he said, " ohh jesus Adriana.." it was so wierd. I asked him if he was Ok, and he said yes, and then was like...'Would you like a piece of Gum?" Totally Random! He just pulled out Gum...So I said, sure...Thanxs. He seemed a bit nervous after that...but after acouple of minutes he seemed back to normal again.

That same afternoon, while we were sitting there I noticed he had gotten a hair cut and I told him..Ohh you got a hair cut.. and he was like...yeah I did, Thanks for noticing...your very observant Adriana..he seemed shocked that I noticed it. I guess maybe no one else had said anything...I dont know. Is that a Big Deal for guys???

And I noticed something else, he uses my name A LOT! We can just be talking and he will always say my name...and I just dont get why he does that...does that mean anything??

Really...the point is... I just couldn't figure out if his reaction to me was a good thing or bad thing. What do you guys think??

[Twinkle Toes]

I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill. NEXT ..........

[wanneroo]

"Final in Math", oh dear.

He offers her gum, calls her by her name? Sure signs if I've ever seen em.

[yankeegirl313]

I think it might be time to ask him out.

[AdrianaM]

Well..I mean I dont want to loose him as a friend if things dont end up well...and part of me feels really positive that he has feelings for me but I still kind of have some doubt...and I dont know. I really do like him, and I would love it if we were to try to get serious with one another, and I mean, it seems obvious that there are feelings there between us.

I just dont know what to do, or how to interpret his signals sometimes

[artsyguy]

sounds like you have a crush on that guy....

[wanneroo]

Originally Posted by AdrianaM

Well..I mean I dont want to loose him as a friend if things dont end up well...and part of me feels really positive that he has feelings for me but I still kind of have some doubt...and I dont know. I really do like him, and I would love it if we were to try to get serious with one another, and I mean, it seems obvious that there are feelings there between us.

I just dont know what to do, or how to interpret his signals sometimes

Buy the book "Superflirt" and "Superdate" by Tracey Cox. It's the decipher code for body language and other signals. It's worth the investment if you are confused.

[AdrianaM]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

sounds like you have a crush on that guy....

You know what, I will admit it....I do have a crush on him. When we first met..I honestly could not stand him, but we have become diffrent people over time and I really like who he has become and is becoming and he has told me the same thing. I guess its the fact that I really do like him, is why its bothering me so much, that he sends so many mixed signals...and I would just go and make the first move...but I mean....some small part of me still doesnt feel like he likes me like that.

But believe me when I tell you..A lot of stuff has happened between us and he has definitely sent the "I have feelings" signs to me...I dont know...I just dont know what to do.

[sassyone]

Originally Posted by AdrianaM

You know what, I will admit it....I do have a crush on him. When we first met..I honestly could not stand him, but we have become diffrent people over time and I really like who he has become and is becoming and he has told me the same thing. I guess its the fact that I really do like him, is why its bothering me so much, that he sends so many mixed signals...and I would just go and make the first move...but I mean....some small part of me still doesnt feel like he likes me like that.

But believe me when I tell you..A lot of stuff has happened between us and he has definitely sent the "I have feelings" signs to me...I dont know...I just dont know what to do.

I would just come out and ask him point blank what his feelings are.
I don't know what it is about him that you like, do you know?

[CESpeed]

I agree with sassy. The only way to know for sure is to bite the bullet and have "the talk" with him.