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Old 11-12-2008, 01:12 PM
 
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If you met the woman that was everything you ever wanted and more, but she was celibate (just waiting til marriage), would that be a deal breaker for you? And please be honest
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:14 PM
 
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I think I might, possibly, highly likely wait 3 months, if nothing materializes then I'd dump her.
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:15 PM
 
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I'd wait.

I'd be tempted, etc., yeah but if she was the one, I'd wait.

I've had lovers and know what it's like - each woman is different, but sex is sex.
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:18 PM
 
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If you met the woman that was everything you ever wanted and more, but she was celibate (just waiting til marriage), would that be a deal breaker for you? And please be honest
If she were everything I wanted and more, no, it would not be a deal breaker. I would wait as long as she needed to wait. I would also still date other women however, unless we became engaged.

Does that woman exist though?
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:19 PM
 
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Yes
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:21 PM
 
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Tough one,how could a guy make out,etc and deal with not going the full monty..
I guess it depends on how long i had to wait until we were married...lol
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:23 PM
 
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That's not an easy one.

I'm tempted to say Yes, because that is the pious and politically correct reply. On the other hand, I would never buy a car without taking a test drive first (Hoo boy. The Indignation Brigade is going to have a field day with that one).
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:24 PM
 
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What if the sex turned out not to be good (say she was frigid) if you waited until you were married? How would you deal with that?
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:27 PM
 
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Not sure why you would want to marry a used woman (vs new) at all if you had a choice. But no, it would sweeten the deal! You can teach her all you want on the wedding night.
How would you know what to do if you hadn't been with a "used" woman? You gotta learn from someone (see other thread )
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Old 11-12-2008, 01:27 PM
 
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Tough one,how could a guy make out,etc and deal with not going the full monty..
I guess it depends on how long i had to wait until we were married...lol
that's a good question.....lots of self controll would have to be involved that's for sure......but if you love somone enough.....it's definitly possible. As a woman...we definitly want to get to know a guy before we take him for a ride.....sort of like......testing the water before you jump in
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