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Look at your screen name. You're crazy. And you're tragic. You obviously have enough self-knowledge to understand your own self-destructiveness. Then why don't you do something about it? I mean, how easy can it be to not return the guy's phone calls.
After all, if a married man divorces his wife and then marries his mistress, all he's doing is creating a job opening.
My screen name has nothing to do with my current situation and maybe I'm with him because of the excitement.
I posted a while back about contacting an ex lover who I found again on face book. we broke up because the guilt was killing him as he was married with children, but I found out from his face book page he was now divorced. well I didn't bother contacting him, but now I find myself involved with another married man. it's only been two weeks but I find my asking why? why am i always attracted to men I can never have totally.
Believe me, there are reasons why you do this - your job is to get into therapy and figure out why you don't love yourself enough to believe you deserve a man of your own.
My screen name has nothing to do with my current situation and maybe I'm with him because of the excitement.
Oh, your handle is revealing enough. Anyway, if excitement's all you want in life, then why not go whole hog and basejump, speedball heroin, or drive 130 mph on the freeway? At least that way you only destroy your own life, rather than help a man betray his wife and family.
More to the point, why are you whining about your relationship and its manifest stupidity in the first post on this thread, and now defending it?
Think about this for a minute. You are hanging out with a man who lies to his wife.
You are doing the humpalumpadingdong with a guy who, every time he takes you to dinner or buys you an expensive bauble, is basically either embezzling from his company or is taking food away from his children.
You are banging this guy while his poor, unsuspecting wife thinks he's picking up the drycleaning or entertaining a client.
And, yet, you're okay with this because it gives you a cheap thrill. And by cheap, I do mean cheap. Don't you respect yourself more than that?
Oh, your handle is revealing enough. Anyway, if excitement's all you want in life, then why not go whole hog and basejump, speedball heroin, or drive 130 mph on the freeway? At least that way you only destroy your own life, rather than help a man betray his wife and family.
More to the point, why are you whining about your relationship and its manifest stupidity in the first post on this thread, and now defending it?
Think about this for a minute. You are hanging out with a man who lies to his wife.
You are doing the humpalumpadingdong with a guy who, every time he takes you to dinner or buys you an expensive bauble, is basically either embezzling from his company or is taking food away from his children.
You are banging this guy while his poor, unsuspecting wife thinks he's picking up the drycleaning or entertaining a client.
And, yet, you're okay with this because it gives you a cheap thrill. And by cheap, I do mean cheap. Don't you respect yourself more than that?
Yep. Her problem is no self-love and no self-respect. It's sad huh?
Yep. Her problem is no self-love and no self-respect. It's sad huh?
Yeah. Essentially she's destroying her own life, that of the slob's poor wife, and those of his children. All because of the 'excitement' of it all. She doesn't seem to get it.
I posted a while back about contacting an ex lover who I found again on face book. we broke up because the guilt was killing him as he was married with children, but I found out from his face book page he was now divorced. well I didn't bother contacting him, but now I find myself involved with another married man. it's only been two weeks but I find my asking why? why am i always attracted to men I can never have totally.
Sounds like you want something you can't have and it is the thrill of the hunt that you love, not the permanent catch.
I was hanging out with a married dude the same time i was hanging out with a single guy.
Married guy kept saying "you could be like my second wife" and i saw that as "concubine? no thanks let's just ****". He really didn't mean it, he liked his family but him and the wife were having issues. As soon as they got along better, he broke it off with me and that was allright cos I was ready for a serious relationship and not just funtime. I later met her, very pretty lady.
Single guy wanted to really date but i wasn't that into him, he went and found some girl to love him.
We ended both agreeable and it was ok.
Don't listen to some of these women who live in fear that their husband will cheat on them so they are quick to blame the woman. MYSOGINSTS! They must not trust their husbands to make the right decision. It's not the woman's fault your husband can't keep his dick in his pants.
I know if my husband cheated that i would solely blame him. The other woman is irrelevant because she is not IN MY MARRIAGE.
It is not another woman's responsibility to make sure MY marriage goes smoothly and that my husband stays faithful. He has a brain and would be expected to say no thanks if propositioned. Anything less would result in him losing everything.
I have a work colleague right now that is getting involved with a married man. I made the right call on not getting involved with her when I had the chance as I could see the warning signs then. The fact she is mixing with a married guy validated my suspicions.
All that can happen in these situations is tragedy and heartbreak. Anyone that does things like this needs help from professionals.
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Oh by the way, I DO hope you are testing for STD's before you start screwing around with someone's husband. Its one thing for him to cheat, its another thing to risk his wife contracting something she isnt expecting.
The whole thing just stinks to high heaven. You should be ashamed of your behavior.
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