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Old 11-14-2008, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Or just get your own life and he will notice.
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Va Beach
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yea...TELL HIM.. us guys can not read minds!! like you women think....
Absolutely! Communication is the most important tool in a relationship!
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:20 AM
 
Location: long island , ny
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Absolutely! Communication is the most important tool in a relationship!
Now I should just take My own advice....My wife would die if she knew I said that!!....lol
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:21 AM
 
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Ask him out on a date.
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:22 AM
 
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show him the divorce papers that should do the trick
lmao!!
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:23 AM
 
Location: long island , ny
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Cook the meatballs while naked ! mangia !
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:26 AM
 
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Show him the divorce papers that should do the trick
ROTFLAMO! I love Artsy!
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:33 AM
 
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I'll be more practical..allthough I'm not married I doo know that men are very visual/physical people..Not sure what you're into but here's what has worked for me:

Lingerie
New Hairstyle
Wear a corset/waist cincer underneath your clothes (accentuates waistline, boobs and hips)
Apply some sort of lipgloss/lipstick- I love MAC viva glam on my suckers

Or you could just walk around naked..
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Some place very cold
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He loves me, and holds me, and does what is necessary, but I feel like he is losing interest in me...I work, am a mother, and a homemaker for them all...how do I get him to realize I need some special things sometimes...We never even went on a date until after we lived together...I just want some romance...I love him and he is my best friend, but the kind of best friend you can't something too because you know it will hurt them...any suggestions?
Do you think he might be having an affair?

Otherwise, I think the only solution is to love and pamper yourself and get your own life.
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:42 AM
 
Location: London UK & Florida USA
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Communication is very important but will not always give you that spark that is needed to rekindle lost passion.
Being a Mom and wife can often leave you tired and without any real time for each other. It can be so destructive to plan ahead for intimate moments. Impromptu, on the spur of the moment moments, are the most exciting and arousing times. Sounds like you are both still close but now caught up in the normal everyday reality of parenthood etc. Be a little more impulsive and try to take time for yourself and regain your spark and remember you are still a sexy woman even though you are a full time Mom.
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