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When I was married, it didn't take much to regain his interest. Sometimes just rubbing his face in my bosom or flashing the 'girls' was enough. Other times, I'd bend over in his face with a short summer dress on. Seemed to do the trick.
Communication is very important but will not always give you that spark that is needed to rekindle lost passion.
Being a Mom and wife can often leave you tired and without any real time for each other. It can be so destructive to plan ahead for intimate moments. Impromptu, on the spur of the moment moments, are the most exciting and arousing times. Sounds like you are both still close but now caught up in the normal everyday reality of parenthood etc. Be a little more impulsive and try to take time for yourself and regain your spark and remember you are still a sexy woman even though you are a full time Mom.
Please. Whatever you do don't start with: "We need to talk. I feel you don't do enough for me emotionally....blah, blah, blah." You'll just push him away.
Don't you know? It's ALWAYS the man's fault! It can never be the woman's fault. And instead of simply being honest and telling him what she wants, all women should just brush their husband's aside and move on and become their own person with their own life. It's how all great relationships work. Oh... that and threatining him with divorce if he doesn't improve and be her "everything" overnight!
i think that may do the trick. the OP should do whatever activities that make her feel good about herself. who knows what they are but a 30 minute jog in the cool weather usually does it for me...on a regular basis you can have that feeling all the time without having to do that specific activity to gain that self assurance.
a girl can be a 10 hot babe and if she's needy and always fishing for compliments she comes off as less attractive than that 7 who carries herself with her you know what on a pedestal. it's a mind thing.
Please. Whatever you do don't start with: "We need to talk. I feel you don't do enough for me emotionally....blah, blah, blah." You'll just push him away.
Did you actually read my post????
I was saying that talking will not solve the problem. Communication is important in any relationship but it isn't what seems to be the OP's problem. She cannot, quite understandably, understand what is happening and their could be many reasons for what's happening.
There was a study recently that showed men are hard wired to ignore their wives.
I don't know if this is the case here, but familiarity breeds contempt. I see with a lot of younger wives they want to be in their husbands life 24/7 and want to be involved with every aspect of their life. Basically they overdo it and try to do too much. Their natural reaction when the man pushes away is to chase him more and make it worse. The antidote to solve relationships drifting apart is to actually be apart a bit.
Really the best thing couples need to realize is alone time is good. Developing your own interests is good. Having your own life is good. One alarm bell for me is when women are like,"i need this, I need that, I have special needs". Men don't like needy women.
Also people respect others that stand on their own feet. I've seen some women go the other way and become passive aggressive if they feel the man doesn't fulfill her needs. They seek negative attention by stuffing their face with oreos and getting fat or by playing the control card with sex or whatever. The best thing they can do is go out and make a nice life for themselves. Get involved with the community, go to the gym, do some activities, have some hobbies, get a job.
When I was married, it didn't take much to regain his interest. Sometimes just rubbing his face in my bosom or flashing the 'girls' was enough. Other times, I'd bend over in his face with a short summer dress on. Seemed to do the trick.
Boy, you think you know someone around here and then they type that!
Step to his grill, say "git up off that couch if ya know whats good for ya" He may say "what? huh? whats going on, i'm scared". A good reply could be "Ain't nobody asked if you was scared, now git up off that couch, little man"... he'll reach for the phone probably, smack it out his hand and hit him in the teeth. That'll get his attention, once you have that, you can move into romance, etc. Good luck.
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