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Old 11-19-2008, 06:20 PM
 
Location: el paso texas
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Default ladys do your husbands "let" you go out

i know i know your not property ladys, i realize that, but if you ask your husbands, if you could go out w your girls, duz he trip, or does he encourage you to go and have a good time.
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Arkansas
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Encourages me to go out and have a good time, but that's because he is gone Monday thru Friday (currently) so I am a single mom on some days. Trust me, when you have kids, you need a drink!
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:26 PM
 
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Ugh, "let" me go out...never an issue...and I would never ask for permission. I ask if he has any prior engagements or if he is working late and if he does and I really want to go out, I get a babysitter.
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I ask him what he would say. He said,"Yeah, as long as it was to a church function."
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:28 PM
 
Location: San Antonio
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My Husband not my Father !! never been a problem something I have always done.
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Northeast TN
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No problem here either. Neither of us ask permission.
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:32 PM
 
Location: southern california
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nope you got it reverse. you have not been reading the threads. men are property.
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:38 PM
 
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nope you got it reverse. you have not been reading the threads. men are property.
You think so? My husband never asks me if he can go out...we are not the others personal property and do not treat each other that way. It is sad that anyone would think that someone is their property.
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Old 11-19-2008, 06:39 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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i know i know your not property ladys, i realize that, but if you ask your husbands, if you could go out w your girls, duz he trip, or does he encourage you to go and have a good time.
This is a non-issue at my house. Because every minute I am not working I spend with him out of choice. I do not have any "girls" because I find that having lady friends puts too much demand on my time. As it is I have to spend far too much time away from home just going to work and I would never dream of reducing our time together even further by going out without him. He is my best friend and biggest, most important part of my life.

20yrsinBranson

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Old 11-19-2008, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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i know i know your not property ladys, i realize that, but if you ask your husbands, if you could go out w your girls, duz he trip, or does he encourage you to go and have a good time.
I don't "ask", I inform.

IF there is a legitimate reason to ask me to reconsider, he will (like other plans or a committment I may have forgotten about) otherwise he says "have a good time and bring me a doggy bag!"
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