ladys do your husbands "let" you go out (girls, single)

[LEVOW]

i know i know your not property ladys, i realize that, but if you ask your husbands, if you could go out w your girls, duz he trip, or does he encourage you to go and have a good time.

[dvcgal]

Encourages me to go out and have a good time, but that's because he is gone Monday thru Friday (currently) so I am a single mom on some days. Trust me, when you have kids, you need a drink!

[mrstewart]

Ugh, "let" me go out...never an issue...and I would never ask for permission. I ask if he has any prior engagements or if he is working late and if he does and I really want to go out, I get a babysitter.

[yankeegirl313]

I ask him what he would say. He said,"Yeah, as long as it was to a church function."

[millie61]

My Husband not my Father !! never been a problem something I have always done.

[MooksterL1]

No problem here either. Neither of us ask permission.

[Huckleberry3911948]

nope you got it reverse. you have not been reading the threads. men are property.

[mrstewart]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

nope you got it reverse. you have not been reading the threads. men are property.

You think so? My husband never asks me if he can go out...we are not the others personal property and do not treat each other that way. It is sad that anyone would think that someone is their property.

[20yrsinBranson]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

i know i know your not property ladys, i realize that, but if you ask your husbands, if you could go out w your girls, duz he trip, or does he encourage you to go and have a good time.

This is a non-issue at my house. Because every minute I am not working I spend with him out of choice. I do not have any "girls" because I find that having lady friends puts too much demand on my time. As it is I have to spend far too much time away from home just going to work and I would never dream of reducing our time together even further by going out without him. He is my best friend and biggest, most important part of my life.

20yrsinBranson

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

i know i know your not property ladys, i realize that, but if you ask your husbands, if you could go out w your girls, duz he trip, or does he encourage you to go and have a good time.

I don't "ask", I inform.

IF there is a legitimate reason to ask me to reconsider, he will (like other plans or a committment I may have forgotten about) otherwise he says "have a good time and bring me a doggy bag!"