[sorry im posting] ladys...are their days where you cry for no reason? (boyfriend, woman)

[artsyguy]

I know what you mean. I should cry sometime. I think I've been holding in some feelings.

Originally Posted by HotWire

sometimes crying can make you feel good if its necessary. But after a few minutes, pull yourself together and get on with things. Crying only creates pity and a feeling of weakness and helplessness.

There's been times I was in a bar, seen an x and started crying. My friends symphathised, and some made fun of me..but months later I felt silly for crying over a jerk. I swear I'll never cry in a nightclub again!

[Hawk J]

sometimes ladies feel like crying.....................it's ok................

[artsyguy]

You are not a lady. So how would you know.

Originally Posted by Hawk J

sometimes ladies feel like crying.....................it's ok................

[Hawk J]

I've known many women in my life..........................married twice.................

[artsyguy]

That is not true. We both know you could never "score" with a lady.

Originally Posted by Hawk J

I've known many women in my life..........................married twice.................

[Hawk J]

wrong.............

[tkdmom]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

My wife called me earlier, and told me that she has been crying all day for no reason, i asked her if me or the kids had upset her, she said no, she just said she felt like crying? Have any of you ladys ever gone through something like this, what could be wrong? What can i do to comfort her?

Sounds like PMS (potential murder suspect) stay away fom her till it passes, or you'll be sooooorrrryyyyy !

[JonathanLB]

I think the phrase "a good cry" is just disgusting, I am sorry it really makes me cringe. I cannot tolerate overly emotional people in general, but I've never seen this from guys I have known closely. I'm sure they are out there. But I see it from girls way too much. This is one reason I love being single -- I cannot deal with that. If someone is crying for no reason, to my mind, she must have some serious issues. Crying is an extreme emotional response, like boiling anger, and it shouldn't just randomly arise. I don't get the whole "hormones" thing, jesus, get things under control! I'm sorry if that sounds insensitive but who wants this in their lives? At least a girl could be a little bit more proud and a little less shameless -- if you feel this way, excuse yourself from anyone else's view, go to a bathroom and hide out, go to your friends' house and eat ice cream and watch Grey's Anatomy, I don't care, but don't bother me with it. It's just not something I can understand at all as a guy and the more a girl makes me feel awkward and makes my life complicated with her emotional baggage, the less I'm going to want to hang out with her. I've never had any of my guy friends tell me, "God, the other day I was just crying uncontrollably and I couldn't help it, I don't know why." If I heard that I'd first off start laughing hysterically, of course assuming it was a joke (usually poking fun at emotional girls), and if he said he was serious, I would seriously wonder what the heck was going on. I would probably call him a girly douche and tell him to stop being such a little wuss. Guys do not behave this way. I'd like to think and hope there are girls who don't, either.

[tkdmom]

Sigh...another whiny little taradiddle...

[Raggy dee Ann]

Originally Posted by LEVOW

My wife called me earlier, and told me that she has been crying all day for no reason, i asked her if me or the kids had upset her, she said no, she just said she felt like crying? Have any of you ladys ever gone through something like this, what could be wrong? What can i do to comfort her?

She could be depressed in which case she needs to see a doctor. You mentioned something about children, how old are they? She could be a little overwhelmed.