She left me all alone after declation of love (dates, women, lover)

[Abandoned love]

We were never more than just friends and she became me very dear. Then, finally, I was able to write her I loved her. But she left me all alone. Despite all the innocent care and long friendship, she replies me only evil words if any nowadays. I’m desperate. Recently, she even denied our friendship never been true, though even she herself used that word in time. I have always loved her and I would have done anything for her. She stopped answering phone, so I have only written her the best I can. All in vain. I’d like to have this in order and share a moment with her. I’m nervous about meeting her by accident. That can happen any time on street or at work or anywhere. I don’t know what to say if we would meet in public place. She just answered me, “lets greet like the convention is and that’s it”. We have common friends but she says she would prefer us never to meet and that she wished me not to take any contact with her any more.

We worked in the same company but we had little cooperation. I was given the sack from my work, but we had a few innocent dates that after. I began to trust her that she really cared me at least as a friend. She even visited my place couple of times. She didn’t accept my dismissal. Now later, she just told that she wanted to comfort me for that. May be so and her comfor was the best one I could have. Any way, that gave me courage to come out and tell her about my feelings. And what I gained. She just broke my hart and I lost my dearest friend. I feel so bad. I seem to mean nothing to her. I think, she no longer cares me not as a friend, not as a human. You are lucky for not to see me writing this. What happened and why, that I’d really like to know?

[IonRedline08]

Looks like you read too much into it. It happens

Move on

[pigeonhole]

Maybe she met another guy in the meantime.
Not worth worrying about .
Forget her.

[Abandoned love]

It is not easy to forget things like this. We live in small circumstances. “Go on and forget”. It's easier to say than do. I understand she will never love me, but I wouldn't like to make war with her either. Is that the way women are behaving today? What I have found out, she just thinks that there is no reason from her side to meet me any more.

I have told her I’d be ready to forgive everything if we just could be friends like we used to be. I still love her even though I know I should not. I succeeded to find out, whether she had noticed my interest when we were "friends". She just aswered: "No".

[IonRedline08]

There is your answer

Honestly, again, it sounds like you read too much into the situation, and now she feels uncomfortable around you.

You didn't have that much going on, anyways, so, it shouldn't be too hard to move it along.

[firehawk]

its just the way women are these days. its a fact and there really is no need for that at all. but unfortunately somewhere along the lines some silly rules and attitudes are taught and made up which is once again, silly - leaving you like this when really there is no need.

i wish you well. indeed it hurts.

[pigeonhole]

if we just could be friends like we used to be. I still love her

That's an oxymoron: either you are in the friend category, or else in the lover category...she must have sensed that you wanted to upgrade in the last, and being probably insecure, she decided that therefore she would be uncomfortable having you as a friend, since she pigeonholed you in the "friend" category, and opted out completely. It happened to me too, it's not nice, unfortunately it's typical insensitive female behaviour.
Forget her. Completely. Don't let her eat out at you.

[Abandoned love]

Some how I just feel, that now she wants to hurt me as much as she can. She was good hearted in time and wanted to see me when my things were not at its best.

Times New Roman]If someone woman would come and say me she loved me, why would I hurt her. I have always tried not hurt those who I think might love me. May be, this is why this situation is so hard for me understand.

[Capt. Dan]

Maybe she feels that hurting you is the only way to get it thru your thick head that ITS OVER! Grab your cojones and man up dude. Your feelings for her were not the same as hers for you. It happens. Go find another friend. Or turn gay so you wont have to worry about "how bad women treat you!"

[Abandoned love]

It may happen when ever that we sit in a meeting around the same table or are invited to the same party. She must understand this possibility. I have to say, I’m not quire prepared for that. How could I contain myself and keep everything inside me. Why all this pain and only for me. I just could not anticipate beforehand things could go wrong this way