Do women want a virgin? (interested, picture, perspective, years)
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Some women want a virgin and some women don't. Some women find a virgin guy weird and some women don't.
I don't want a virgin as most likely he'll **** me then go **** someone else as it seems guys desire and seek variety. I find it weird for a guy to be a virgin considering how many seem to want to have sex as much as possible seeking ways to have sex using manipulation and deception and the availability of prostitutes that many don't have any qualms about other than fear of stigma.
Well, I'm living proof that at least some women want to be with a virgin. 36 years old male; good looking; successful, etc.. Met someone very attractive and we went out a few times. I asked her how she was feeling about things. Her response was "well, I just want to go slow, you seem nice and I'm interested but I'm not looking for too much right now". We talked a bit more and i finally decided to drop the "bomb" on her that I was a 36 year old virgin. She didn't believe it at first and seemed shocked, but she was very nice about it. Her eyes then lit up and she started kissing me. Few hours later...no more virgin. I swear the moment i said i was a virgin it was a total/instant turn on for her and everything worked out very pleasantly for several hours
Well, I'm living proof that at least some women want to be with a virgin. 36 years old male; good looking; successful, etc.. Met someone very attractive and we went out a few times. I asked her how she was feeling about things. Her response was "well, I just want to go slow, you seem nice and I'm interested but I'm not looking for too much right now". We talked a bit more and i finally decided to drop the "bomb" on her that I was a 36 year old virgin. She didn't believe it at first and seemed shocked, but she was very nice about it. Her eyes then lit up and she started kissing me. Few hours later...no more virgin. I swear the moment i said i was a virgin it was a total/instant turn on for her and everything worked out very pleasantly for several hours
Interesting strategy. Next time I find a girl that "wants to take it slow," I'll use this. After all, if I don't, I won't be getting laid anyway....so there's nothing to lose.
Interesting strategy. Next time I find a girl that "wants to take it slow," I'll use this. After all, if I don't, I won't be getting laid anyway....so there's nothing to lose.
A social worker I talked to about it basically gave the advice once you get to a certain point with someone, you have to talk about it. If you hide it, it certainly won't work out and she'll just think you weren't good with no understanding. If you're open about it, she'll either get turned on or turned off. If she's turned off, oh well, it wasn't meant to be. It was suggested to me that most women find it as a turn on as there is no threat or performance anxiety on the woman's part, and the "virgin" can be molded to what they like. I fought about being open about for years. As you said, there's nothing to lose.
I'll tell you this, all of my personal anxiety over it was for nothing. It's about as simple as simple gets compared to other things in life. If you're open and communicate and willing to try things, it's very easy to please the other person even if you're endurance isn't what it should be yet.
I kinow that some guys like a virgin lady (I think). Well I am a 22 yr. old male virgin. Do girls find this weird? I am not un-attractive, I am 6-3 180. So that is not it. I just have not felt like I 'needed' to 'lose' it. Would girls be more attracted to that fact, or would it be a 'Holy cow stay away from that guy' kind of feeling. Also, I am MORE than willing to wait until I am married until I actually 'complete' the act. Ladies, what say you?
I say I wish there were more guys like you, especially in Denver! lol
I've always preferred virgins. But if the guy looked like an "Abercrombie model" or one of the dudes on an underwear billboard and was a virgin I would not be interested. I'd think he was just super picky because he "knew" he was sooo special. I like grateful virgins. They are super into it. Enthusiastic.
I'm also pretty territorial in relationships so I like not having to think about all the other women who have "been there done that" before me. And I think my virgin preference is smart in terms of avoiding STDs. I mean I like altogether inexperienced virgins. Not those idiot guys that have done "everything but" with a billion chicks.
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Ladies, what say you?
