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Old 12-06-2008, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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You sure the one on the right is a woman
Looks like a dude to me. hmmm.... either really goofy in the head, OR sheer genious. You could get into any femalr locker room that way.
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Old 12-06-2008, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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the dark haired one is hot!
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Old 05-02-2009, 09:49 AM
 
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I love virgins. Men who are virgins usually are open to developing principles. What that means is that I can have sex in a nice, safe atmosphere. They think because you insist that they do; they think everything you teach them is normal because they have nothing to compare it to (except porn, and then again everyone knows that porn just shows temporary types of satisfaction- so you can immediately show them how unrealistic it USUALLY is); they are open to all sorts of sexual ideas; they research and try to mix it up to make things a bit more equal; they are more likely to be curious long enough to actually have alot of fun with and most of all- their appetites are huge- which can almost compare to mine! lol. I like them. That being said- those women who dont have much time for developing these men into the best they could be, or who prefer one-night stands- a virgin will never do it for you. They have their limits. It unfortunately can be summed up in one word- time. Virgin men make wonderful long term lover though. But of course, this is solely my opinion. I am aware of how rare it is. There are no bounds to laziness in this world it seems.
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Old 05-02-2009, 09:52 AM
 
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By the way, out of curiousity- how can you talk about virginity without being sexual? It seems like the topic chosen ought not to have been chosen if the participants in this discussion are to be held to the limit on 'sexual talk'. How else does one address the topic of preference for virgins?

This question was asked out of curiousity. An answer would be welcomed.
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Old 05-02-2009, 12:34 PM
 
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LadyPhoenix, heres a novel idea. How about a virgin that wants a virgin because he wants someone who shares his ideals and beliefs? Crazy isnt it lol. Of course virgins are open to all sexual ideas and would love to do anything to please their woman but I would want my first time to be with my wife on my wedding night and I would like that time to be just as special for her. Someone who things that sex is truely special and meant to be saved for 1 person, not one person each time lol.
Its crazy that most women are shallow enough to think of virginity as a crutch or burden to be relieved. I would never think that about a female virgin. I would definetely respect her so much.
I would think that it would be more learn learning together, and for sex to be a new thing that will only get better, and for it to be as much a spritual experience than just a physical one.



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I love virgins. Men who are virgins usually are open to developing principles. What that means is that I can have sex in a nice, safe atmosphere. They think because you insist that they do; they think everything you teach them is normal because they have nothing to compare it to (except porn, and then again everyone knows that porn just shows temporary types of satisfaction- so you can immediately show them how unrealistic it USUALLY is); they are open to all sorts of sexual ideas; they research and try to mix it up to make things a bit more equal; they are more likely to be curious long enough to actually have alot of fun with and most of all- their appetites are huge- which can almost compare to mine! lol. I like them. That being said- those women who dont have much time for developing these men into the best they could be, or who prefer one-night stands- a virgin will never do it for you. They have their limits. It unfortunately can be summed up in one word- time. Virgin men make wonderful long term lover though. But of course, this is solely my opinion. I am aware of how rare it is. There are no bounds to laziness in this world it seems.
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Old 05-02-2009, 02:39 PM
 
Location: California
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A little late - but no, I would not. Having sex is normative in our society. So I would be very curious as to why he didn't do it yet. As others have said, the age is esp. important.
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Old 05-02-2009, 02:54 PM
 
Location: The Plains
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virginity is an odd thing to put a value on, Once you loose it , you are going to wish you got rid of it along time ago.The only great thing about waiting IMO is the older you are you are prolly in your own bed , in your own apartment and you are not worried about getting caught, I think a lot of people associate the first time with getting caught.
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Old 05-02-2009, 05:10 PM
 
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Yes. I think it's great that you want to wait until marriage to do the deed. I have the same mindset as you, and ideally I would want my future hubby to be a virgin too. If he isn't, it's not the end of the world. But to be each other's first would be much more meaningful and something to look forward to on the night of the wedding!
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Old 05-02-2009, 10:44 PM
 
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Although I don't think it's creepy, but rather admirable that you are still a virgin at 22, I personally wouldn't want a virgin. Besides, If I met a virgin guy around my age (40's), I would have to wonder if there are "issues".
I would want someone with experience. I don't have the patients nor the want to play teacher at that paticular moment.
Oh and although you say that you are attractive and I am sure you are, you don't need to be attactive to sleep somebody. Anybody can find someone to sleep with regardless of what you look like. Even if you are hidias looking, you will get laid, but who's to say what the person who will sleep with you will look like, yikes!
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Old 05-04-2009, 07:39 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Ladies, what say you?
I personally wouldn't want a virgin. I've had more than my fair share of GOOD sexual experiences from guys who put the SMACKDOWN down, so I wouldn't have the patience for a virgin. Not saying being a virgin is a bad thing, though. It just wouldn't be a sexual experience that I would want to partake in with someone who is one.
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