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View Poll Results: How often do you get it on? MARRIED/ Live In LTR of 1 year + ONLY
7 times + per week 6 7.89%
4 - 6 times per week 16 21.05%
2 - 3 times per week 21 27.63%
Normally around once a week 17 22.37%
Twice a month'ish 3 3.95%
Once a month'ish 4 5.26%
Once every couple of months 3 3.95%
Special Occassionas (Birthdays/ Anniversarys) 0 0%
Less than 4 times per year 6 7.89%
Voters: 76. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-02-2008, 03:40 PM
 
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Ok, so here's the rules of this poll.

1: Please ONLY vote in the poll if you have been married or in a live in relationship for 1 or more years, either currently or in the past.

2: Comments are open to everyone including those who have never had a relationship at all, but keep the poll for those who have been in 1 year plus living together relationships. Not we've been dating for 2 years and have sex every time we see each other - you MUST be cohabiting to vote.

3: Please feel free to share your 'we do it 12 times per day' for the 'how often is normal thread' or in the comments of this thread, but lets keep the actual poll honest.

So how often do MARRIEDs/ LTR actually get it on?
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Old 12-02-2008, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Austin
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It varies. Sometimes it's once a week, sometimes it's 5.
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Old 12-02-2008, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Ex-Mr. Jeep and I, when he was actually home, 7+ a week. Every morning and night. If we did not do it in the morning, we got it in the afternoon. It was a very sexually charged marriage.
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Old 12-02-2008, 03:49 PM
 
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It varies. Sometimes it's once a week, sometimes it's 5.
Sorry carlitasway - it always posts the question before the poll is ready. Just pick an average.

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Ex-Mr. Jeep and I, when he was actually home, 7+ a week. Every morning and night. If we did not do it in the morning, we got it in the afternoon. It was a very sexually charged marriage.
Holy cow!! How long were you married for?
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Old 12-02-2008, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Holy cow!! How long were you married for?
Almost 20 years. Unfortunately, we were one of those couples that even if we were fighting, our adrenaline and endorphins pumped so hard that would end us up in bed too. So even when we fought, we got horny. Was unusual, my friends never ended up in bed in the middle of a fight with their husband or boyfriend. Always wondered how many couples were like this too.
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Old 12-02-2008, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Was unusual, my friends never ended up in bed in the middle of a fight with their husband or boyfriend. Always wondered how many couples were like this too.
Either one of ya Italian or thereabouts?
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Old 12-02-2008, 04:02 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Either one of ya Italian or thereabouts?
Nope, I'm a mix of Polish, Icelandic and Irish (finally found the *actual real* mix after finding bio family). Mr ex-Jeep is German. I was adopted into an Italian family, but genetically, I am not Italian.
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Old 12-02-2008, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Nope, I'm a mix of Polish, Icelandic and Irish (finally found the *actual real* mix after finding bio family). Mr ex-Jeep is German. I was adopted into an Italian family, but genetically, I am not Italian.
The Italian family dynamics must've rubbed off on you anyway... Itís not only about genetics. Itís often said most of us subconsciously try to recreate the relationship observed in our original families.
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Old 12-02-2008, 04:09 PM
 
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We have small children - so opportunities are rare AND we are both exhausted, full time working and I also take night classes for my Masters...

Although Thanksgiving Weekend it was everyday
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Old 12-02-2008, 04:25 PM
 
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Almost 20 years. Unfortunately, we were one of those couples that even if we were fighting, our adrenaline and endorphins pumped so hard that would end us up in bed too. So even when we fought, we got horny. Was unusual, my friends never ended up in bed in the middle of a fight with their husband or boyfriend. Always wondered how many couples were like this too.
Wow - that definitely doesn't happen with us - if I'm angry at my DH the very last place I want to be with him is in bed. Shame though, because it sounds like a pretty good way to resolve angry feelings - or were you still angry afterwards?

I have actually never heard of someone who was married for 20 years, still doing it every day. That's quite an achievement. MY DH would go on strike if I told he was expected to perform every single day.
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