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You will never find out unless you take up football and become an a-hole.
In general it's good to be cocky with girls, that's what all of the players do and it's what any good PUA does. You can't argue with results -- those guys know the game and they play it VERY well. The cocky-funny routine does work, and it works better than anything else, at least at getting hot girls, and who cares about whether it works on ugly chicks, that's really not the goal. It takes a cocky attitude to take down a hot girl, but you have to be funny about it too, it can't come across like you're just cocky, it has to have comedic effect, has to be said with a smirk or grin so she knows you're toying with her.
In general it's good to be cocky with girls, that's what all of the players do and it's what any good PUA does. You can't argue with results -- those guys know the game and they play it VERY well. The cocky-funny routine does work, and it works better than anything else, at least at getting hot girls, and who cares about whether it works on ugly chicks, that's really not the goal. It takes a cocky attitude to take down a hot girl, but you have to be funny about it too, it can't come across like you're just cocky, it has to have comedic effect, has to be said with a smirk or grin so she knows you're toying with her.
Yea.. for one night stands, emotionally meaningless.
I can see where your logic is coming from, it makes sense, but it is completely relative to the situation and that situation is one I am not interested in that much.
Well it depends what you want, sure. But this "emotionally meaningless" thing I don't get. I don't go around wondering what ways I can be "emotional" today, it's a horrible word and a horrible concept. I don't want a "deep, emotional connection" with a girl. I want great sex and a fun time. I really don't get the whole deal with this emotional connection crap, honestly, sounds like something girls talk about while watching Sex and the City and eating ice cream.
I have no need for some girl to stroke my ego or "comfort me" in times of sorrow or something. No thanks. I've went through all of my life strong enough to handle all of its challenges by myself, with grace, I don't need anyone "there for me," I just want to have fun times with girls and enjoy their company. I don't want a bunch of drama.
Well it depends what you want, sure. But this "emotionally meaningless" thing I don't get. I don't go around wondering what ways I can be "emotional" today, it's a horrible word and a horrible concept. I don't want a "deep, emotional connection" with a girl. I want great sex and a fun time. I really don't get the whole deal with this emotional connection crap, honestly, sounds like something girls talk about while watching Sex and the City and eating ice cream.
I have no need for some girl to stroke my ego or "comfort me" in times of sorrow or something. No thanks. I've went through all of my life strong enough to handle all of its challenges by myself, with grace, I don't need anyone "there for me," I just want to have fun times with girls and enjoy their company. I don't want a bunch of drama.
I have a better idea. How about I have great sex, a fun time, AND be emotionally attached? Like someone who I could open up to about anything. Have you ever even had a best friend?
Just because you are emotionally attached to someone doesn't mean you are crying with them and seeking advice all the time, are you stupid? Come on, get real. I have an amazing friend of mine that I talk to EVERYTHING about and not once have I ever felt sorry enough for myself that I NEED someone there, however it helps to know that someone is there that you can talk to.
You are telling me that you have never opened up to someone? You've never felt like without them you wouldn't be who you are today?
To tell you the truth man, I feel bad for you. You must not have many close friends. Yes, your life may be all fun and games and you are able to solo every obstacle that crosses your path, but it sucks to know you're the only one there to witness them.
I have a better idea. How about I have great sex, a fun time, AND be emotionally attached? Like someone who I could open up to about anything. Have you ever even had a best friend?
Just because you are emotionally attached to someone doesn't mean you are crying with them and seeking advice all the time, are you stupid? Come on, get real. I have an amazing friend of mine that I talk to EVERYTHING about and not once have I ever felt sorry enough for myself that I NEED someone there, however it helps to know that someone is there that you can talk to.
You are telling me that you have never opened up to someone? You've never felt like without them you wouldn't be who you are today?
To tell you the truth man, I feel bad for you. You must not have many close friends. Yes, your life may be all fun and games and you are able to solo every obstacle that crosses your path, but it sucks to know you're the only one there to witness them.
Frap - I'm impressed - you are actually more mature and have your headed screwed on straighter than Jonathan - don't pay any attention to what he is telling you
I'm clueless now. I don't think she is very interested in me, maybe I made it sound better than it is. Yea she wants me to walk with her sometimes but usually when she is with a couple of her other guy friends she does the same thing with them. Once in a while I feel that her and I are connected moreso than those guys, like everytime she grabs my arm and says 'Hey come on!' like it is more significant than when she does it with them. But then again there are some times when she will give all her friends a hug in the room except for me. Optimistically, I assume she does it because she is nervous. Once I think that I feel like a cocky idiot and then assume she doesn't really want anything to do with me.
I don't know, I'm clueless... just thinking aloud on a forum, I've talked to my good friend about this, but I'd like to get a woman's perspective or just advice on how I should approach this problem
Just go tell her your into her....with confidence. No need to be intimidated, she's human just like you are with the same feelings and insecurities i'm sure....although it might not seem like it sometimes. Just tell her.....the worst that can happen is that she doesn't feel the same way but then you know, you move on.....don't waste your time w/one girl your wayyyyy too young....tell her and if it doesn't work out.....NEXT! lol......
In general it's good to be cocky with girls, that's what all of the players do and it's what any good PUA does. You can't argue with results -- those guys know the game and they play it VERY well. The cocky-funny routine does work, and it works better than anything else, at least at getting hot girls, and who cares about whether it works on ugly chicks, that's really not the goal. It takes a cocky attitude to take down a hot girl, but you have to be funny about it too, it can't come across like you're just cocky, it has to have comedic effect, has to be said with a smirk or grin so she knows you're toying with her.
Jonathan have you been listening to alot of David DeAngelo??
jonathan have you been listening to alot of david deangelo??
lmao!
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