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Old 12-08-2008, 12:13 PM
 
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Yes. It is sad. Why do you let her take your kids? Does she buy them gifts and goodies or something??

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No, they don't. I have one daughter and her birthday was 2 months ago. My MIL wanted to take her out and another crazy episode occurred and we did not let her go. So 2 weeks ago my daughter finally went out with my MIL...she got into the backseat and when the door shut she put her little hands on the window and mothed the words "help me"...she was kidding but it was hysterical!

I have 6 children and she has only taken 2 out by themselves! My oldest and my fourth child have been out with her alone. Sad, huh?
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Old 12-08-2008, 12:13 PM
 
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If you think a change can happen and the family is open minded enough (and without EGO) you may be able to hash it out...just be sur eyou are doing it for the right reasons. Expect the unexpected!
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Old 12-08-2008, 12:52 PM
 
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Wow mrstewart, that's awful. I think you are a saint to still be in contact with them! Especially after the near-drowning incident. Haven't you been tempted to rip that picture off of her fridge and put it in your purse?
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:15 PM
 
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Wow mrstewart, that's awful. I think you are a saint to still be in contact with them! Especially after the near-drowning incident. Haven't you been tempted to rip that picture off of her fridge and put it in your purse?
No, not tempted to rip that off her fridge but her head off her shoulders!
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:28 PM
 
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No, not tempted to rip that off her fridge but her head off her shoulders!
Couldn't you have sued those "negligent" family members for not keeping an eye on your son (when it happened)? So sorry to hear that!
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:33 PM
 
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Having been on both sides, I'd gently suggest you weigh the situation and determine if bringing it to the surface is worth the results, which could isolate both you and your spouse from family.
Besides, bringing it up to people who are so blatant....really think it will make them change their behavior or just mask it?
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:42 PM
 
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Well, MRS, that takes the cake. You are a much more tolerant person than me. I think after my first go-around, I would have cut them off forever.
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:44 PM
 
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Well, MRS, that takes the cake. You are a much more tolerant person than me. I think after my first go-around, I would have cut them off forever.
Well, they behave in the interim long enough for me to get to the point where I start forgiving them and then they pull something new...the older I get the less tolerant I am of their shenanigans.
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Old 12-08-2008, 03:05 PM
 
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Well, they behave in the interim long enough for me to get to the point where I start forgiving them and then they pull something new...the older I get the less tolerant I am of their shenanigans.
Well good for you for sticking up to your points!
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Old 12-08-2008, 03:25 PM
 
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Well, they behave in the interim long enough for me to get to the point where I start forgiving them and then they pull something new...the older I get the less tolerant I am of their shenanigans.
Well, the minute I was accused of stealing anything, I would have been done with them.
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